tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post1508382647696954422..comments2024-03-28T05:32:02.945-04:00Comments on field negro: It's your call.field negrohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15411743587725023134noreply@blogger.comBlogger107125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-90681794359000094692009-03-26T07:22:00.000-04:002009-03-26T07:22:00.000-04:00Correction: $14 million is what the state of Geor...Correction: $14 million is what the state of Georgia had been receiving for this $100 million per year national program.<BR/><BR/><BR/>Thus for "AA" to be labeled a failure there only needs to be a substantial amount of students who had taken the program choosing to have sex.<BR/><BR/>IRONICALLY - despite the increase in STDs and HIV among places that have REJECTED ABSTINENCE ONLY EDUCATION (the cities that I have listed) the rampant increases of STDs and HIV <B>Is not enough to have these same critics attack "Wrap It Up" and other progressive programs.</B><BR/><BR/>In the face of an STD and HIV epidemic many of these people say we need MORE condom advertising. Few of them will state that we need a CHANGE IN CULTURE among the people who are most at risk lest they perish.Constructive Feedbackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13417405356099504421noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-23886255132680684402009-03-25T19:56:00.000-04:002009-03-25T19:56:00.000-04:00[quote] I live in America where justice is rare. W...[quote] I live in America where justice is rare. When it does happen, it is an accident of the court. It's like hitting the lotto...a complete surprise to all involved, including the lawyers and judge.[/quote]<BR/><BR/>(This too is frustrating)<BR/><BR/>Anon:<BR/><BR/>Can you define for me what YOUR concept of "justice" is?<BR/><BR/>Can you detail HOW YOU prove that it is present when YOU see it?<BR/><BR/>It is important that you shift from being arbitrary to being more definitive as a means of detailing the veracity of your claims.Constructive Feedbackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13417405356099504421noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-77551070751719187302009-03-25T19:54:00.000-04:002009-03-25T19:54:00.000-04:00[quote]There was an article in the Wash Post Thurs...[quote]There was an article in the Wash Post Thurs that said that the teen pregnancy rate continues to rise, despite the all the abstinence classes teens are forced to take. Hm, ya think??[/quote]<BR/><BR/>Lola Gets:<BR/><BR/>(This is so frustrating folks)<BR/><BR/>Could you DOCUMENT FOR ME the number of public schools in:<BR/><BR/>* Washington DC<BR/>* Baltimore<BR/>* Philadelphia<BR/>* NYC<BR/>* Baltimore<BR/>* Chicago<BR/><BR/>WHERE "ABSTINENCE ONLY EDUCATION" is the SCHOOL POLICY?<BR/><BR/>I am TIRED OF THE LIES!!!!<BR/><BR/>How does a $14 million per year program that was ONLY DEPLOYED in a few districts in Texas and Indiana is standard policy in LIBERAL/PROGRESSIVE school systems around the nation?<BR/><BR/>The FACT is that these school systems DO NOT have "Abstinence Only" policies!!!<BR/><BR/>Thus I struggle to understand how you can say "a drug has killed people".....when "the drug" is not available but for a limited set of cities? (Note - the 'drug' is a metaphor that I am using).<BR/><BR/>You need to focus on the POLICIES THAT ARE PRESENT in the given community and schools. <BR/><BR/>Unfortunately this would cause you to be critical of the PREVAILING PROGRESSIVE POLICIES in these HIV ravaged cities.Constructive Feedbackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13417405356099504421noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-80019815380967814232009-03-24T16:13:00.000-04:002009-03-24T16:13:00.000-04:00I think dead beat dads should be placed on blast. ...I think dead beat dads should be placed on blast. In my neck of the woods , law enforcement as resorted to bill boards to help locate missing and wanted individuals. I think they should use bill boards for dead beats with a list of their offenses and warnings not to get involved with these types of men. Just my two coppers.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-2936072817046130032009-03-24T13:58:00.000-04:002009-03-24T13:58:00.000-04:00When men like that do that to women and the innoce...When men like that do that to women and the innocent children, it is really pure hatred he has for himself and his race as a whole. It is the norm for the African Americans (A psychological hatred).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-46503763901115925262009-03-24T13:49:00.000-04:002009-03-24T13:49:00.000-04:00Unfortunately, it isn't something funny nor to pok...Unfortunately, it isn't something funny nor to poke fun at; it is the sad truth of our society. The society is at fault for its past ills (slavery, the broken black family, the hatered we have for each other, etc..) these are all part of the psychology of the "baby daddy" syndrome - - African Americans have almost have to start all over and pull themselves up and start supporting and buying from each other (no one else is going to do it for us). We have to start over and stop doing and having what ole master is doing and has. Take care your your families, teach your own children, be there for your FAMILIES, stop splitting up over small things and move on (the bigger picture is community, but start first with taking care of your family). We have to get rid of Bigger Thomas (John Smith) and his kids and baby mommas (I say his kids because the cycle will continue, that's for sure).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-53242662088302944682009-03-21T01:28:00.000-04:002009-03-21T01:28:00.000-04:00Constructive Feedback-"COULD YOU TELL ME IN WHAT N...Constructive Feedback-<BR/><BR/>"COULD YOU TELL ME IN WHAT NATION IS THERE A "GREAT JUSTICE SYSTEM" to your liking?"<BR/><BR/>I don't know. Does it matter? I live in America where justice is rare. When it does happen, it is an accident of the court. It's like hitting the lotto...a complete surprise to all involved, including the lawyers and judge.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-77772622140181760192009-03-20T21:16:00.000-04:002009-03-20T21:16:00.000-04:00Hi Daedalus2u,You said... "I know it sucks for a w...Hi Daedalus2u,<BR/>You said... <BR/>"I know it sucks for a woman to be forced to support step-children, but at least those children have the same father as your child." <BR/><BR/>Supporting the "bonus" kids has had the most incredible payoff of my life. (I wasn't real keen on supporting "her" though.) Women don't usually spend their entire adult lives raising their kids. Not having other producing skills can just so damage a person's life.<BR/><BR/>Thnk about it--kids are life's last greatest luxury--and assets to us all.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-76567266225231514912009-03-20T21:11:00.000-04:002009-03-20T21:11:00.000-04:00I am a Social Worker. I will leave this one alone....I am a Social Worker. I will leave this one alone.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-48348392762044268832009-03-20T20:12:00.000-04:002009-03-20T20:12:00.000-04:00I work for a pro-choice organization, and I can te...I work for a pro-choice organization, and I can tell you that there are LOTS of women out there having non-protected, birth control free sex out there. <BR/><BR/>If I could start a self-esteem building/safer sex (yes birth control too) promoting group for teens, I would, but you American society wont let you speak honestly and openly about sex with teens. <BR/><BR/>There was an article in the Wash Post Thurs that said that the teen pregnancy rate continues to rise, despite the all the abstinence classes teens are forced to take. Hm, ya think??<BR/><BR/>LLola Getshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07058543308191117858noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-79235941159292438502009-03-20T16:55:00.000-04:002009-03-20T16:55:00.000-04:00Another thing I like about this is that it may be ...Another thing I like about this is that it may be a crime deterrent as well - if you're not on the street working under the table to avoid garnishment, you're probably not in drug trafficking. You're probably not sponging off some other woman, either.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-3256317136311585932009-03-20T16:52:00.000-04:002009-03-20T16:52:00.000-04:00I would have the man work and live under supervisi...I would have the man work and live under supervision, with all of the proceeds going to his upkeep and his children's upkeep until each child reaches the age of majority. I think there should be state and/or federal work camps for deadbeat parents - not like chain gangs exactly. There are other ways for prisoners to make cash. Manufacturing. Construction. Public maintenance work crews. Plus the dads get a skill they can use after the last of their kids reaches majority and they're released from custody. <BR/><BR/>I think that having to work in custody for each child they make would be enough of a deterrent to making more kids.<BR/><BR/>I wouldn't force a vasectomy or visitation, but if they parent wants visitation, in some cases maybe they should get it under supervision. You know some of these folks claim they don't pay because the mothers keep the children away. Maybe visitation would be a motivator. Maybe these fathers can tell their sons to their faces, "I'm in work camp because I was irresponsible. I don't want you to go this route," so it doesn't go down through the generations.<BR/><BR/>And why not give offenders the opportunity to leave camp after they've caught up in their arrears? Some of them might actually be responsible on their own from that point forward if given the chance.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-64814699535195422422009-03-20T10:02:00.000-04:002009-03-20T10:02:00.000-04:00By not supporting his children he has committed ch...By not supporting his children he has committed child abuse. Put him in prison for that as well as contempt of court. Prison does cost a lot, but it will probably be cheaper than letting him stay out and father 10 more children. How many of the children he already has are going to end up in prison? <BR/><BR/>This guy is an irresponsible slime, as are the women who had children with him. I would haul him and all 6 women into court, and force all 7 of them to support his 10 children. Any that refuse would go to prison. <BR/><BR/>I know it sucks for a woman to be forced to support step-children, but at least those children have the same father as your child. That makes for more of a moral obligation than unrelated tax payers have. When you pick someone to be the father of your child, pick someone responsible or it may come back to bite you.daedalus2uhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10416564922288784455noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-75639659270990823962009-03-20T06:16:00.000-04:002009-03-20T06:16:00.000-04:00Set him free. The kids will grow up one day, and ...Set him free. The kids will grow up one day, and as many as there are, there's sure to be at least one to exact revenge...Besides,he can only live a miserable existance anyway with this immoral behaviorAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-19715086154926726742009-03-20T05:32:00.000-04:002009-03-20T05:32:00.000-04:00[quote]America has a great penal system, but a lou...[quote]America has a great penal system, but a lousy justice system. It's all about negotiations and competing for the best deal...for both sides. It has nothing to do with "Justice."[/quote]<BR/><BR/>Anon:<BR/><BR/>I'll ask you what I typically ask socialists in order to trigger the typical "deer in the headlights" reaction from them:<BR/><BR/>COULD YOU TELL ME IN WHAT NATION IS THERE A "GREAT JUSTICE SYSTEM" to your liking?<BR/><BR/><BR/>(If you say "Cuba" I will climb on the top of my roof and jump head first to the ground)Constructive Feedbackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13417405356099504421noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-43810855627470472662009-03-20T01:40:00.000-04:002009-03-20T01:40:00.000-04:00Isonprize, I was being facetious about supervised ...Isonprize, <BR/>I was being facetious about supervised babysitting with the children. If he doesn't want to be involved in their lives that's his loss. I would never advocate for forced visits with a child. <BR/>He had the mental capacity to walk away from a job once his wages were garnished. I stand by the physical castration. And tied tubes for the women if they knew of his history of not caring for his children. Some people are just trifling and no amount of counseling will change that.<BR/><BR/>Minnie<BR/><BR/>MinnieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-78111724879165312202009-03-20T01:32:00.000-04:002009-03-20T01:32:00.000-04:00Vasectomy or castration.Vasectomy or castration.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-56190392409388796732009-03-20T01:23:00.000-04:002009-03-20T01:23:00.000-04:00Anyone here old enough to remember those Laugh-in ...Anyone here old enough to remember those Laugh-in shows on TV? The first thing that came to mind was "Bailiff! Whack his pee-pee!"<BR/><BR/>Is the question about justice, revenge, or accounting? If we want justice, we have to put the kids first, figure out systemic changes, and find a way to hold this man accountable for laws he has broken (failure to pay child support, not engendering children). If we want revenge, we can fantasize about various ways to whack his pee-pee. If we are most interested in not having the state subsidize the crappy parenting choices of individuals, then we lose because the only way to do that (cut off the women!) is to inflict suffering on children. <BR/><BR/>I say, make him run naked down Broad street! while we all whack his pee-pee with sticks.momohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12149328149132703479noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-5328887215853806572009-03-19T23:47:00.000-04:002009-03-19T23:47:00.000-04:00snip snip or go to jail for lifesnip snip or go to jail for lifeUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12396160623533614490noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-18388350466278438332009-03-19T23:43:00.000-04:002009-03-19T23:43:00.000-04:00Make a hit movie about him as well as a #1 hit mus...Make a hit movie about him as well as a #1 hit music video and make sure anyone who sees the movie and hears the music will be reminded of just what a self-absorbed, selfish, cynical creap the chap is. Make his brand so poisonous and unattractive that everyone spits when his name is mentioned. If he is indeed a symbol of what is wrong, then make sure no one is mistaken as to what he stands for.<BR/><BR/>Other than that, I don't think there's much else we as a society can do. The dude doesn't give a shit about much other than getting off, and as long as he doesn't boink minors, ain't nobody going to snip his semen delivery system. <BR/><BR/>Just because you can't do something about it, that don't make it right.Ray Bridgeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16496709017124120407noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-31688001886931689812009-03-19T23:07:00.000-04:002009-03-19T23:07:00.000-04:00Mack Lyons, why don't you read the post and stick ...Mack Lyons, why don't you read the post and stick to the point, this has nothing to do with blaming the woman today. We are talking about Mr. Smith, and the issue HE placed himself in. You Dumb fuck.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-12533611512526020912009-03-19T22:21:00.000-04:002009-03-19T22:21:00.000-04:00I sentence him to DEATH!I sentence him to DEATH!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-19157201209379436092009-03-19T22:19:00.000-04:002009-03-19T22:19:00.000-04:00All who sentence dude to "parenting classes" and t...All who sentence dude to "parenting classes" and taking care of the kids -- Why should the kids suffer thru this assholes inability to care for them? He doesn't want the children. Now the kids need to KNOW that?<BR/><BR/>The kids will still get the short end of the stick. And that is a heartless way to treat children. <BR/><BR/>Okay, he can't/won't pay his child support. Cutting his dick off is going to help the kids he always 'has'? I think not.<BR/><BR/>I say, take the $$ that you would spend on putting him in jail and find someone who connects with dude for some psych counseling. <BR/><BR/>The real issues is that as a society, we have to improve the systems that care for children ALL children. <BR/><BR/>Of course, the women need to make better choices. But until we value children, until we treat children better, it doesn't matter how many men get locked up for not paying child support, it doesn't matter how many women have babies without thought,<BR/><BR/>-- CHILDREN DO NOT ASK TO BE HERE. And you can't send them back, once they are here.<BR/><BR/>Some of ya'll are just hateful. I'd hate to see what you would say if some of the kids were born with special needs or if dude was mentally challenged, which he may very well be. DAMN.isonprizehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14913699118019643094noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-290283099209089912009-03-19T22:18:00.000-04:002009-03-19T22:18:00.000-04:00His punishment might not be as harsh, but I will s...His punishment might not be as harsh, but I will still kick everyone in the a**<BR/><BR/>He should have a relationship with children.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-32632991350146008992009-03-19T22:08:00.000-04:002009-03-19T22:08:00.000-04:001.jail for parents who refuse to care for their ch...1.jail for parents who refuse to care for their children-work camp type jail where they do real work and the pay is garnished for their children's care. <BR/>2. child abuse and neglect criminal charges for parents who refuse to care for their children/refuse to pay child support.<BR/>3. free birth control and sterilization for anyone who wants it in the country.<BR/>4. sterilization incentive tax rebates/payments for people who are having more children than they are willing to care for, those who don't want more children, and lots of education for ALL about this option<BR/>5. An extensive, eternal, scared straight PR campaign to educate everyone about the dangers of having unwanted children and how f**ked their life will be, featuring documentary and testimony from TRavis, Mr.Smith and their women.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04889821421500472460noreply@blogger.com