tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post5177765979389150218..comments2024-03-18T22:34:29.437-04:00Comments on field negro: Culture shock?field negrohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15411743587725023134noreply@blogger.comBlogger170125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-4124022983819474512010-01-25T09:13:11.982-05:002010-01-25T09:13:11.982-05:00assnon et al:
real men do not bash strong smart w...assnon et al:<br /><br />real men do not bash strong smart women<br /><br />and i am certain that i can speak for whomever "the 3 women" herein are...<br /><br />NONE of them would ever date ANY of you...especially lesbian ME!!<br /><br />good riddance!...alicia bankshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15921804031029586951noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-20765530306542548462010-01-25T09:11:09.034-05:002010-01-25T09:11:09.034-05:00uts:
she said she let go of that silly ht rule......uts:<br /><br />she said she let go of that silly ht rule...and she is still alone!<br /><br />and i think they all are 10s<br />including her<br /><br />to each their ownalicia bankshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15921804031029586951noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-89444803111706530342010-01-24T14:03:46.415-05:002010-01-24T14:03:46.415-05:00ab
"look at these young gorgeous physically ...ab<br /><br />"look at these young gorgeous physically flawles educated rich het black women?<br /><br />look at their pain!!!<br /><br />http://aliciabanks.vox.com/library/videos/tags/black+women/ <br /><br /><br />how can you be so cold and cavalier about their very real pain????????????"<br /><br />I watched that video and much of their "pain" comes from these sisters being totally unrealistic about their prospects and themselves.<br /><br />One of them actually said that for the longest she wouldn't date anyone shorter than <br />6'3?!!?<br /><br />She wasn't that tall or fine herself!!!<br /><br />AB, tell the truth.<br /><br />If some brother said that he wouldn't date anyone but "long-haired redbones", you would think he was a total jerk.<br /><br />What's the difference?uptownstevenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-46213539078411054122010-01-24T13:55:38.350-05:002010-01-24T13:55:38.350-05:00Tell it Mack.Tell it Mack.uptownstevenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-85639001819057536342010-01-24T08:46:15.794-05:002010-01-24T08:46:15.794-05:00way late to this party, oh well.
i'm a produ...way late to this party, oh well. <br /><br />i'm a product of a mixed "race" marriage. i don't subscribe to the social construction of race, as a result. it's really stupid, from the perspective of science. i also don't subscribe to the notion that all "black" people share a common culture. we share lots with each other that we don't share with "white" people, but i prefer to look at that from the economic and political viewpoint more than i do a sociological one. <br /><br />people should fuck who they want, date who they want, and marry who they want, if any. i believe this is true for people regardless of "color," gender, identity, religion and orientation. if we really lived in a free society, everyone would be able to make their own choices. but legally, as well as socially, we tolerate inequality, often putting on the chains ourselves. <br /><br />in my experience, black americans and jews are the groups that get the most touchy about in-group relationships. ymmv. koreans are also pretty bad in this respect.chicago dykehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16679908774337228752noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-6701324631143378582010-01-23T20:01:13.464-05:002010-01-23T20:01:13.464-05:00Anon 2:46
Got one....thanks...Anon 2:46<br /><br />Got one....thanks...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-13957997786981723252010-01-23T18:30:33.799-05:002010-01-23T18:30:33.799-05:00Mack-"And many women tend to demonstrate how ...Mack-"And many women tend to demonstrate how "strong" and "independent" they are by taking on domaneering and overbearing personalities. I doubt any man would want to be treated with contempt, disrespect or just outright being treated like a child. And yeah, I know I'm gonna get flak for this comment, but to be honest, I don't care anymore. *dons flame suit*"<br /><br />Right on, brother. It is true and the reason why some women are alone...You must be talking about the gang who are boycotting bm and the three on this blog. Everyone knows who they are. I would call out their names but I need a new flame suit. <br /><br />Mack, keep that flame suit on. LOLAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-35312033262580307382010-01-23T18:09:42.807-05:002010-01-23T18:09:42.807-05:00Mack:
"And many women tend to demonstrate ho...Mack:<br /><br />"And many women tend to demonstrate how "strong" and "independent" they are by taking on domaneering and overbearing personalities. I doubt any man would want to be treated with contempt, disrespect or just outright being treated like a child."<br /><br />You telling the truth!GrannyStandingforTruthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17427949558167014793noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-29661221023506011042010-01-23T18:06:38.195-05:002010-01-23T18:06:38.195-05:00Maria:
I am a widow but when my husband was livin...Maria:<br /><br />I am a widow but when my husband was living we got a long pretty good, we were each others best friend. We had our fair share ups and downs and arguments. But with them we had good communication, were willing to meet each other half way, and work it out together.<br /><br />Teeth and tongue fall out sometimes too. (smile)GrannyStandingforTruthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17427949558167014793noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-13023125327226965062010-01-23T17:58:52.080-05:002010-01-23T17:58:52.080-05:00Maria, thanks for sharing. You are not alone in fa...Maria, thanks for sharing. You are not alone in failed marriages. The US has a 60-70 percent divorce rate. We are a nation where serial monogamy is the norm.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-90708314046866160392010-01-23T17:28:50.756-05:002010-01-23T17:28:50.756-05:00it's not possible or necessary to dissect my f...it's not possible or necessary to dissect my failed marriage here, but i can assure you it did NOT end because i was domineering or because i disrespected my man. quite the opposite. as i have said earlier, my x could not deal with having 3 kids, including a set of twins. <br /><br />thank you, granny. i was married 22 years. and we aged more like moldy cheese than fine wine! i hope that you enjoy a good union, as you surely deserve that.mariahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00631814857608730236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-75324263288211977002010-01-23T17:18:10.045-05:002010-01-23T17:18:10.045-05:00and many of them would tell you that they DID feel...<i>and many of them would tell you that they DID feel threatened by me. and that we were not a good match. <br /><br />many men do want a weak woman. that's a fact.</i><br /><br />And many women tend to demonstrate how "strong" and "independent" they are by taking on domaneering and overbearing personalities. I doubt any man would want to be treated with contempt, disrespect or just outright being treated like a child. And yeah, I know I'm gonna get flak for this comment, but to be honest, I don't care anymore. *dons flame suit*<br /><br /><i>Why don't you worthless blacks just move back to Africa and STFU?</i><br /><br />Why don't you go put a gun in your mouth and kill yourself? Seems you subconciously regard yourself as worthless -- why not commence with the ultimate act of declaring your nonexistant self-worth instead of calling others worthless?Mack Lyonsnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-36856546884067184652010-01-23T16:33:30.772-05:002010-01-23T16:33:30.772-05:00maria:
Ignore them! At least you are willing to ...maria:<br /><br />Ignore them! At least you are willing to admit your mistakes. That's a plus! Because a lot of folks would place the blame solely on their ex-mate and overlook their own faults in why a relationship didn't work. It takes two to tango as my mother used to say. Marriage is a learning experience just like anything else. It depends on what you willing to learn. People that stayed together until death do them part had to get over a lot of humps and bumps to maintain that marriage. It wasn't always peaches and cream but it does get better with time and like wine as it ages, it mellows out.GrannyStandingforTruthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17427949558167014793noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-15118864364463830202010-01-23T15:24:47.122-05:002010-01-23T15:24:47.122-05:00hey, nappy, read what i was responding to. the guy...hey, nappy, read what i was responding to. the guy was saying that was why he dated white woman. your comment makes no sense.mariahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00631814857608730236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-84090759197188383222010-01-23T13:41:03.881-05:002010-01-23T13:41:03.881-05:00that's either sexism, a touch of racism, or bo...that's either sexism, a touch of racism, or both!<br /><br />Which is why brothas should not date white women bitch.nappynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-65550499943638684022010-01-23T08:57:40.583-05:002010-01-23T08:57:40.583-05:00and i was NOT "blaming the brother." i w...and i was NOT "blaming the brother." i was blaming MYSELF. i stuck with guys way longer than i should have, esp. my former H, because i had three young kids.mariahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00631814857608730236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-73095388496999731212010-01-23T08:49:09.992-05:002010-01-23T08:49:09.992-05:00i am white. which the long-time posters on this bl...i am white. which the long-time posters on this blog and its owner know. field has given me HHN status.<br /><br />i find it funny that you'd think white women are superior to the way i am thinking. you think i'm black. that's either sexism, a touch of racism, or both!mariahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00631814857608730236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-62868063726795507832010-01-23T02:46:28.941-05:002010-01-23T02:46:28.941-05:00Anon11:23p, go get 'em if they'll have you...Anon11:23p, go get 'em if they'll have you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-40292872215656067872010-01-22T23:23:36.683-05:002010-01-22T23:23:36.683-05:00White boys are so pretty
Skin as smooth as milk
Wh...White boys are so pretty<br />Skin as smooth as milk<br />White boys are so pretty<br />Hair like Chinese silk<br /><br />White boys give me goose bumps<br />White boys give me chills<br />When they touch my shoulder<br />That's the touch that kills<br /><br />Well, my momma calls 'em lilies<br />I call 'em Piccadillies<br />My daddy warns me stay away<br />I say come on out and play<br /><br />White boys are so groovy<br />White boys are so tough<br />Every time that they're near me<br />I just can't get enough<br /><br />White boys are so pretty<br />White boys are so sweet<br />White boys drive me crazy<br />Drive me indiscreet<br /><br />White boys are so sexy<br />Legs so long and lean<br />Love those sprayed-on trousers<br />Love the love machine<br /><br />My brother calls 'em rubble<br />That's my kind of trouble<br />My daddy warns me "no no no"<br />But I say "White boys go go go"<br /><br />White boys are so lovely<br />Beautiful as girls<br />I love to run my fingers<br />And toes through all their curls<br /><br />Give me a tall<br />A lean<br />A sexy <br />A sweet<br />A pretty<br />A juicy<br />White boy<br /> <br />....that is all...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-73834213832756393442010-01-22T22:16:43.370-05:002010-01-22T22:16:43.370-05:00Anon, "And if Barack Obama had a single broth...Anon, "And if Barack Obama had a single brother I would marry him in a heart beat."<br /><br />Just like that? Without even knowing him or caring if he cared about you?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-17423380511936118842010-01-22T21:52:26.453-05:002010-01-22T21:52:26.453-05:00Hey Field as you probably are aware I stay away fr...Hey Field as you probably are aware I stay away from non-political posts along with a few others that I just stay out of because I think its much ado about nothing.<br /><br />But I wanted to just say that I like your open minded approach on interacial dating. You are right true love is too hard to come by to limit your opportunity to grasp it when it comes your way.<br /><br />I understand some concerns however. It grieves me to no end when black folks act prejudiced toward other cultures and races. Its also incredible considering all the hell that black folks have caught for just being black.<br /><br />The only issue I have with interacial dating is when its done out of self-hatred. I have a really hard time with folks who marry someone outside the race who have no appreciation for the race,and sometimes hold a dim view of black folks, but they just like you because you are not like the rest of them. <br /><br />I had a friend who was married to a racist white woman. I had another friend whose white wife and her friends would denigrate me because I was an active fighter for civil and human rights. They interpreted fighting against racism and injustice as being anti-white. Which was incredible Field since I had known these folks since college. But they didn't want to understand they were looking for a way to make it somehow a personal attack on them.<br />Strange stuff indeed.<br /><br /><br />I have also witnessed black women who date white men for primarily materialistic reasons and who turn their nose up at black men. I have seen that more often in black women from the Carribean and sometimes in upper class black women and black women who have grown up in primarily white environments.<br /><br />I have a young friend who dates white guys primarily. She has had a white boyfriend who treated her like dirt and when she left him he stalked her and acted totally disrespectful toward her and her new black boyfriend. It was bizarre. But she went back to him and when I asked her why, after all he had put her through she was still going back to him. She couldn't answer, but I suspect it had something to do with his whiteness and her inherent sense of inferiority and low self esteem.<br /><br />I say more power to you if you find someone who loves you, but I think that the prospective partner needs to know that your culture is important to you and helps define you whether you like it or not.mellaneousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-51128686895078685622010-01-22T21:04:47.256-05:002010-01-22T21:04:47.256-05:00I wonder what Michelle Obama's family and frie...I wonder what Michelle Obama's family and friends thought of that guy she was dating with the odd African name Barack Hussein Obama? <br /><br />Seriously I can't believe we are still considering this an issue in 2010. I dated a Nigerian while in college and he was one of the smartest, most thoughtful men I have ever known. And if Barack Obama had a single brother I would marry him in a heart beat.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-77616343237241795092010-01-22T20:58:14.854-05:002010-01-22T20:58:14.854-05:00nobody says, " I wanna grow up and be a negro...nobody says, " I wanna grow up and be a negro"Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-64770480586536481322010-01-22T20:36:57.261-05:002010-01-22T20:36:57.261-05:00have made many mistakes in my choice of men
Well ...have made many mistakes in my choice of men<br /><br />Well if you knew and loved yourself that would not have happened...you got some work to do Maria. And I bet those guys think they made mistakes too....just like a typical sista, blame the brotha...which is why we date white women.istatnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23428832.post-60686534725643709012010-01-22T19:18:12.284-05:002010-01-22T19:18:12.284-05:00I have never really paid attention to who BM date ...I have never really paid attention to who BM date because they just are not on my radar and it is their business. I've dated Africans, Jamaicans,etc. But I like other kinds of men too. People date who they like and who like them.<br /><br />Live and Let LiveFunkyStarkitty50https://www.blogger.com/profile/15759977398015806528noreply@blogger.com