Thursday, August 26, 2010

Nadja, Ken, and Michael.


"All I can say, pretty looks isn't all" ~ Heptones~

It's not, and it can sure get you killed. I bet some of Nadja Benaissa's partners are hoping that it doesn't get them killed. Seems they swung some eps with my girl and she failed to mention that she was....well, HIV positive. Oh ohh, yes fellows, that can be a little problematic.

"The one-time pop star was tried in juvenile court because the sexual encounters began when she was 17, which is also the age she was when she learned she had HIV after a pregnancy test."

Memo to all you players out there, never leave your jimmies at home. It could save your life. [Story]

Speaking of failing to mention something: So let me get this straight; you mean to tell me that all those years Ken Mehlman was leading the republican hit parade against Gays and leftist, he was a closeted Gay man ,himself? Oh my. You just never know where those skeletons will come from.

"The unity of the Republican Party's electoral coalition may have been dealt a setback this week when longtime top party official Ken Mehlman walked out of the closet.

Many Washington insiders long had suspected that Mr. Mehlman, a former Republican National Committee chairman who ran President George W. Bush's 2004 re-election campaign, is gay, but the public admission - and Mr. Mehlman's promise to work actively for legalizing same-sex marriages - clash for many with the party's message on social values.

'I could care less if Ken is a gay; it is a private matter. But gay marriage is not,' said Indiana Republican National Committee member Jim Bopp Jr.. Mr. Bopp, a constitutional lawyer who has argued cases before the U.S. Supreme Court, co-founded the first formal conservative caucus within the RNC."

"Marriage is NOT a private matter"? Mr. Bopp (I love that name) you have got to be kidding me. The honest truth is this: the sooner you republicans get into the 21st Century the easier life will be for you. Twisting yourselves up like a pretzel in order to make sense of your twisted positions is starting to make you folks look really stupid.

"Earlier this year, an informal private agreement was reached among some social, religious and fiscal conservatives and Republican officials to emphasize fiscal issues in the midterm elections and to downplay issues like abortion, same-sex marriage and stem-cell research."

Of course. Now it all makes perfect sense.

Why do I get the feeling that the rise of the tea party folks and wingnuts is causing more stuff like this to happen here in A-merry-ca? Still, I am going to leave this one alone. I need some new Air R's before I can go chasing my man racism, he has gotten way too fast for me. Where is Glenn Beck when you need him to bring peace and racial harmony to a troubled country? Oh yes, he will be in D.C. this weekend. I can't wait.

Unfortunately for Michael Enright he won't be there.- Although I know he would love to be. It seems my man has been taking his cues from Glenn lately. Hey Michael, cab drivers piss me off sometimes, too, but I don't go around pretending that they are a Thanksgiving turkey just to make a point.

154 comments:

  1. totally unrelated: HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

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  2. Anonymous10:12 PM

    Field Happy Birthday!

    that german pop singer is truly a menace to society eyem angry that she would be so careless and irresponsible with the lives of others perhaps jail time might have been appropriate in her case cuz something aint rite for her to do that to people!

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  3. Gregory10:21 PM

    Field,
    Has slappy posted a comment since Michael Enright was arrested? Just saying....

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  4. I read somewhere that many homophobic people are just trying to hide their homosexual feelings. And after so many Republicans either coming out or being outed as gay over the past several years I'm thinking that it's true.

    As for Nadja, obviously what she did was wrong, very wrong. But she's had a really rough life so I hope they give her more counseling than jail time.

    It's your birthday Mr. Field? Wow, happy birthday! I hope you're having a nice one.

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  5. Happy Birthday Field.

    I am gonna go to DC on Saturday... I am joining NAN and NAACP and others for the rally at 1301 New Jersey Ave, NW (it's the Mt Vernon Stop on the green line so I'm pretty sure the Becksters won't be riding with me) and it starts at 11am, Rally there and then march to the MLK Memorial site on the Mall...just in case anyone wants to join me... I just feel obliged to stand up and be counted as speaking out against this blasphemy that is Glenn Beck.

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  6. Thanks folks, Virgo in the house! :)

    Jody, good luck down there. Girl you keep your boots on the ground, I love that about you.

    Val, she won't be getting jail time. She will be getting probation.

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  7. In 2004 Ed Gillespie, Ken Mehlman, Don King,Michael Steele and other top black Republicans came to Cleveland to meet with The Nation of Islam and Black Conservative Ministers. They called the Nation "values voters".They had a anti-Gay proposial on the ballot. While Sean Klannity offered a bounty for a photo of Sen.Obama with Minister Farrakhan,The whole RNC and Bush's campaign were meeting with the Nation of Islam.

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  8. Anonymous11:37 PM

    I am sure those bw against bm, will be silent about this. They won't be criticizing her for spreading HIV. Actually, they are probably laughing and very happy it happened.

    No one ever talks about the vicious wrongs done to bm on this blog. Note that Val had nothing negative to say about her. Just that "she needs counseling". I find it amazing that Blacks won't go for therapy but when shit goes wrong for a bw who spreads HIV, then the "poor girl" needs counseling.

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  9. Dark Frosty11:55 PM

    Happy birthday, Field

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  10. Dark Frosty11:59 PM

    Gregory said:

    Field,
    Has slappy posted a comment since Michael Enright was arrested? Just saying....

    You know the first thing no_slappz is going to mention in response to Enright is some crime that some black person has committed somewhere.

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  11. Anonymous maybe you could tell her that...if you speak German. Her Nationality is German. AIDS isn't about race or gender. Take that hatred somewhere else.




    Happy Birthday Field.

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  12. Field:

    This link is sorta a birthday greeting to you from me:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FchMuPQOBwA

    Anyway, I hope you enjoy and are blessed with many more to come.

    BTW, the link is for Field only. But why come I just know someone on here is gonna let curiousity get the best of them.

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  13. Anonymous12:31 AM

    Kid, "Take that hatred somewhere else."

    What hatred? What are you talking about? Everyone knows you are full of love, kindness and compassion for ALL people, including Whites. So you are very qualified to criticize others. Right, Mr. Cleveland?

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  14. Happy Birthday Field (or is it belated by now). Did you wear your birthday suit? Today would have been the perfect day to do that run. :)

    "I am sure those bw against bm, will be silent about this. They won't be criticizing her for spreading HIV. Actually, they are probably laughing and very happy it happened."

    LOL. Ok I'll bite the bait. Nadja was born to a Moroccan father and a Serbian mother. Go figure.

    So now that an ambiguous looking Serbian/German raised woman with funny looking melanin is out and about spreading HIV to stupid men, she's all of a sudden a "black woman". Smh.

    You know how most of you hypersexualized "playaz" role, you would be easy prey. Half the black communities in the US would have been infected by now if she was even near.


    (Heck, maybe she's a Mus... um, I mean a Buddhist)

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  15. Anonymous12:49 AM

    LAB, "You know how most of you hypersexualized "playaz" role, you would be easy prey. Half the black communities in the US would have been infected by now if she was even near."

    Now see? No compassion..This is what I am talking about. BW will find anything to cover up their wrongs. The woman is Black, period. And she has been spreading HIV among innocent bm.

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  16. Anonymous1:03 AM

    Kid, "AIDS isn't about race or gender."

    Can't wait to hear what no_slappz has to say about this. Kid, get ready to be slammed by a brilliant white master. You will be crying when he finishes with you. But you are used to him walking on you.

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  17. Anonymous1:07 AM

    "And she has been spreading HIV among innocent bm."

    Who said the victims were black, and she ain't black herself.

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  18. Anonymous1:31 AM

    "Who said the victims were black, and she ain't black herself."

    If she ain't black herself, then neither is Tiger Woods or Obama. Some of you folks make me laugh with your twisted ways of determining who is Black or who is not.

    Let me put it this way: Many Blacks see her as Black, and ALL Whites see her as Black. But some Blacks don't want to see her as Black because she has done some dumb heinous shit.

    But if she hadn't done wrong, some of you Blacks in denial about her color, would be the first to claim her based on her beauty. You are such hypocrites..you don't know whether you are coming or going...you don't know who you are. That's very sad.

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  19. Anonymous1:41 AM

    Michael Enright proves that it doesn't take much to be a journalist. Anyone without much character can do it.

    And that cab driver should shave off his beard cause things are heating up against Muslims in NYC.

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  20. Anonymous1:49 AM

    It's interesting that when a woman spreads HIV among men, black femi-nazis say she needs "counseling".
    When a man spread HIV among women he is a monster, specifically, a down-low monster (if he's black) who needs to be thrown in jail.

    Black women should STOP blaming black men ("down-low" or STRAIGHT) for the spread of HIV/AIDS among black women.

    Black women should insist that their male sex partners use condoms EVERY time they have sexual intercourse. If "sistas" fail to make their male sex partners use condoms EVERY time they have intercourse then whatever STDs (including HIV/AIDS) they get is their own damn fault.

    Stop blaming black men for the spread of HIV/AIDS among black women. EVERY black man and EVERY black woman is responsible for his or her OWN sexual health. I'm glad we've finally worked that out.

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  21. Anonymous1:50 AM

    Please read an excellent article on how to ignore Beck and pay respect to Dr. King's dream:

    http://withintheblackcommunity.blogspot.com/2010/08/spirit-test-what-does-it-indicate-that.html

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  22. Anonymous1:53 AM

    If a black woman is infected with the HIV/AIDS virus it's her own damn fault unless she was raped. Period. End of story.

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  23. Happy Birthday, Field! Wishing you the best ever.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lp3ob2EeYNU

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  24. Happy Birthday, Field!

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  25. Anonymous4:51 AM

    Someone said:

    "If she ain't black herself, then neither is Tiger Woods or Obama. Some of you folks make me laugh with your twisted ways of determining who is Black or who is not."

    Tiger Woods has TOLD you Negroes lacking in self respect and desperately wanting to claim folks that don't wish to be claimed that he is CAUBLINASIAN. He is not Black. He started out Black as a toddler golfer and as he became successful grew up and decided he was that made up word. This is America and he can be what he wants to be. Since his mother is Thai, I am not going to argue, since Black Women are the mothers of black people.

    Folks went back to making him black after his epic public failure as a husband. Which is why I don't care how some White folks view things. SO WHAT if all white folks don't want to claim is considered Black? These same White folks see most negative/bad things as "black". Are you in agreement with that crock as well?

    Obama has been both Black AND Biracial (which is a more accurate term for White women's children with black males.) on the road to POTUS. The Negroes lacking in self respect that were DYING to claim him as Black were offended when his biracialness (made that word up I think) was stressed to help more white folks feel ok with him being POTUS. These poor Negroes would have saved themselves stress had they just called Obama the biracial he is from the beginning.

    The woman that is deliberately infecting folks with HIV does NOT fit my description of "beautiful" and NO, I don't clamor to claim all the folks that other groups refuse to claim. They are biracial which is their own group in and of itself. I am kind to all folks because at the end of the day the group you belong to matters not to me. It is about the spirit you have and the way you treat others.

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  26. Anonymous4:52 AM

    Happy Birthday FN!

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  27. Anonymous4:56 AM

    "You know how most of you hypersexualized "playaz" role, you would be easy prey. Half the black communities in the US would have been infected by now if she was even near."

    Now see, LA, you are too funny! LOL! SO wrong for THAT!

    Yep, the playas rapping about "pimping" tend to like her look for their videos. LOL! Thank God she is NOT in the US!

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  28. Anonymous5:10 AM

    Someone said:

    "If a black woman is infected with the HIV/AIDS virus it's her own damn fault unless she was raped. Period. End of story."

    Does THIS work also in your little world:

    If a black man is infected with the HIV/AIDS virus it's his own damn fault unless he was raped. Period. End of story.

    Because if it did you would calm right on down and just shake your head in disgust with the other sane folks. Maybe these men thought she "looked clean" and that is why they decided to play Russian roulette with their lives? If I had to pick victim or volunteer, I would go with the latter for the males in this piece.

    HOW does anyone know the males were Black? And following THAT assumption, it would be reasonable to think this WOC likes sexing black males, right? So...it begs the question, WHO gave it to her?

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  29. Anonymous5:32 AM

    "Black women should insist that their male sex partners use condoms EVERY time they have sexual intercourse. If "sistas" fail to make their male sex partners use condoms EVERY time they have intercourse then whatever STDs (including HIV/AIDS) they get is their own damn fault."

    I would go even further and say to Black women that IF you have to INSIST he wears a condom in this day and age, you would be better off to just get up, get dressed and go home.

    IF you have to insist on basic responsible acts, trust he will be the one talking about how you are nagging him. You are not his mother and he should ALREADY know the importance of using a condom. We are talking about MEN right? Not only will wearing a condom lower the risk of infection it will also help prevent the creation of children that folks will be hard pressed to provide for/protect/raise.


    When more black males understand:

    Black Men should insist on using condoms EVERY time they have sexual intercourse. If "brothas" fail to use condoms EVERY time they have intercourse then whatever STDs (including HIV/AIDS) they get is their own damn fault.

    The men in this story learned this lesson the very hard way. Not so much victims as they are volunteers.

    This woman is proof positive that pretty is as pretty does. The behavior is all bad and wrong. I don't have a problem calling it.

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  30. Look like the trolls and the Pee Partiers that come here are getting more vicious. Race Baiting and the Willie Lynch approach don't work anymore.

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  31. If it were a man who did this likely jail time would have been the outcome:

    "It is been more than two decades since the first person was convicted based on the 1988 ruling, some of them because they deliberately infected sexual partners, others were convicted because they were simply careless.

    In June 2007, for example, a 38-year-old man from the western city of Cologne was sentenced to eight years in prison for deliberately passing on the HI virus to four women. He even sent them text messages saying "Have fun with HIV".

    The latest case was that of a decorator in the northern city of Kiel in June 2010, who was sentenced to five years in jail for infecting two women with HIV during unprotected sex."


    http://www.dw-world.de/dw/article/0,,5946040,00.html

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  32. Thanks for all the birthday love from everyone. (Granny, thanks for that link! ;)

    I consider that woman black (Sorry La-Audio) but as someone above said; I know nothing about her partners. So.....and this is going to sound strange coming from moi, but I don't see where there is a racial issue here. Although we could make it a gender one. Just saying.

    "I would go even further and say to Black women that IF you have to INSIST he wears a condom in this day and age, you would be better off to just get up, get dressed and go home."

    Ahhh....why is that? Could you explain a little more?

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  33. Hey Field, I see its your birthday today, Happy Birthday! And that is disturbing what that girl did to those men. Counseling and a good swift kick in the ass might do the trick!

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  34. MR!!! what a nice surprise to see you. seriously. please stay! hope your son and husband are well! it's very early in ca.

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  35. ditto fn!

    she got celeb justice

    a slap on the wrist for what is essentially sexual serial killing

    shame!!!

    others who were not pretty/female pop stars have received much harsher sentences for the same sexual preying
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    re fake gaybashing gays

    as always fn!

    MOST of the gaybashing republicans and holy homohaters are GAY!!!

    especially those who scream loudest like the nelly rick warren

    http://www.outragethemovie.com/

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  36. ALL who gaybash loudest are GAY!!!

    http://aliciabanks.vox.com/library/post/donnie-mcclurkin-homohating-homosexual-hypochristian.html

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  37. happy earth day fn!

    you are a king...have a regal day!!!

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  38. anon/uts:

    ditto

    u r slandering bfs unfairly as always

    scan up...

    reverse sexism is very real in custody law/child support/sex crime cases...

    ie
    female teachers who molest/woo students never get the same severe punishments that male teachers do etc...

    ie
    here is what men who are not pop stars get for deliberately passing out hiv/aids like candies...

    http://cbs11tv.com/local/Philippe.Padieu.Sentencing.2.1027240.html

    shame!!!

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  39. "I would go even further and say to Black women that IF you have to INSIST he wears a condom in this day and age, you would be better off to just get up, get dressed and go home."

    Ahhh....why is that? Could you explain a little more"

    Cuz in the mind of the bm hater, men are always predatory beasts and women are always guileless victims.

    Some of the sistas on here are getting pretty tedious with their man-hating rants.

    My question is what do they expect to accomplish?

    Do they really think that black men are going to co-sign with their hate?

    Doubtful.

    My suggestion to them is go and pursue your "other" options.

    God bless and please go quickly and quietly.

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  40. anon:

    ditto!!!

    we are all responsible for our OWN sexual lives

    but
    she should still be in prison with peerr serial killers

    and if she was male or not a celeb, she would be

    http://aliciabanks.vox.com/library/video/6a0123ddb39306860b0137e0ef4cbf860f.html

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  41. Anonymous9:49 AM

    So now that an ambiguous looking Serbian/German raised woman with funny looking melanin is out and about spreading HIV to stupid men, she's all of a sudden a "black woman". Smh.

    You know how most of you hypersexualized "playaz" role, you would be easy prey. Half the black communities in the US would have been infected by now if she was even near.

    Totally true, thats why she made all the black media, she is the exotic type they lust after these days

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  42. According to y'all when HAVEN'T we lecherous bruthas lusted after exotic types?

    Or white women..

    Or Afghan sheep.

    freakin ridiculous.

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  43. uts:

    the colorist shoes fit u way too snugly to protest.

    really.

    http://aliciabanks.vox.com/library/video/6a0123ddb39306860b0123de1368bf860d.html

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  44. Field, I don’t care if she was the new “mother Teresa” that woman is not black and she is not attractive. Only superficial black men try to coin ambiguous women like her as “black” so they can engage in their lust for anything non-black under radar, and without being called out for it. I wouldn’t want anyone to assume you are that type. No wonder the troll anony assumed she infected black men, they must know the trend.

    "HOW does anyone know the males were Black? And following THAT assumption, it would be reasonable to think this WOC likes sexing black males, right? So...it begs the question, WHO gave it to her?"

    Sister Anony, I could not have said that any better. LOL. According to the Million Man March cadet Steve, non-black men don’t want black women, so who on earth is infecting all these black women with STDs? LOL. And I don't even know why the troll would assume her partners were predominately black, or try to cry over black male victims, especially considering her location. Again, more projection.

    Girl, you always read my mind. Then again you and I are supposed to be the same person, LOL (Well according to the one who needs to hurry grab a bottle of that bleach peroxide to compliment that act of hers). Sister Anony, you are the bomb when they start you up, LOL. I have never been so flattered :)

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  45. "Field, I don’t care if she was the new “mother Teresa” that woman is not black and she is not attractive."

    This gal looks similar to many sisters I see walking around DC and PG. And I would say she's somewhat attractive. Nothing to get real excisted over.

    Just curious, just what kind of woman do YOU consider attractive?

    Whoopi Goldberg? Fantasia?

    Not saying that they're not but I get the feeling that you're one of these sisters that feel if a brutha dates a woman who isn't darkskinned with very African features, you want to call him a sellout.

    "According to the Million Man March cadet Steve, non-black men don’t want black women, so who on earth is infecting all these black women with STDs?"

    We can flip that around.

    Whose infecting the brothers?

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  46. Steve you beat me to it. lol

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  47. LAA said: Girl, you always read my mind. Then again you and I are supposed to be the same person, LOL (Well according to the one who needs to hurry grab a bottle of that bleach peroxide to compliment that act of hers). Sister Anony, you are the bomb when they start you up, LOL. I have never been so flattered :)

    10:45 AM

    you are such a fraud--and a bad one.

    you posted the same damn thing under "anon" two days ago:

    Anonymous said...
    Maria-

    I am glad the truth amuses you. That is a much better attitude than getting angry, shrill, or God forbid crying.

    Of the two of us, it is you that should be a comedian. Dye your hair blonde and you will get a pass for the non stop, incoherent, historically UNsound dumbness that you insist on sharing with the world around you. You won't be held responsible."

    sad, stupid girl! no need to keep attacking me or bringing me up, is there? i haven't even posted on this thread except the first comment. i'm your new straw man? good luck with that.

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  48. LAA - You know how most of you hypersexualized "playaz" role, you would be easy prey. Half the black communities in the US would have been infected by now if she was even near.

    Anon - Totally true, thats why she made all the black media, she is the exotic type they lust after these days

    9:49 AM

    I know I'm going to catch hell and all and well.. I have to ask..What IS it the is acceptable "look" for you two? If it's white - ain't right. Lightskinned, High Yellow or Red Bone, it ain't right. If they're AKA's it ain't right (But THEY DO LOOK GOOD!). Gotta weave? I bet that ain't right either. WHAT IS IT? "Enlighten" me, please.

    10:50 AM

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  49. uts:

    it is very clear that you are not saying that they are too

    you always reveal your own colorism and eurocentrism in all that you post!!!

    my hottest/most exciting/beautiful bf celeb is rutina wesley

    i also adore pam grier/janet j/adina porter etc...

    fyi

    http://blogs.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=blog.view&friendId=201418543&blogId=538428890

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  50. http://aliciabanks.vox.com/library/link/6a0123ddb39306860b01347f346c91860b.html

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  51. "it is very clear that you are not saying that they are too"

    You're right. THEY'RE NOT.

    But I find many other darkskinned women to be gorgeous.

    I'm married to one.

    Some of you sisters need to understand that it's not because you're dark that you're not getting any play.

    That's an excuse.

    However it's obvious that the protofemmes are only into finger-wagging and never self-reflection.

    I find it sad.

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  52. uts:

    ps:

    yes!!

    both whoopi and fantasia are prettier than this serial killer to me

    and both are also MUCH prettier than yellow sex symbol mrs. TI/tiny too!

    colorism rules all uts
    and you prove that daily solo herein


    http://aliciabanks.vox.com/library/link/6a0123ddb39306860b0137e03fba07860e.html

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  53. uts:

    it is not because they are ugly that you are dissing them

    it is because they look too much like you and your mom


    fyi.

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  54. "Whose infecting the brothers?"

    Well, based on the dating preferences and the amount fatherless uncombed wild-haired children walking around with white women, Latin women, Asian women, and Martian women, you can take your pick on the usual original host. And don't forget that rich white man with dark tint who's been picking you up from the basket ball courts to hook you up with money for bling, oh and don't forget you pals pookey and dem in prison.

    Then you haul your diseases back into the black community and infect the gullible "I just want a brother to love me" black women, and the rest has been sad history.

    Rottnkid, why do you care what other black women think is "acceptable", you already know what your preferences are, so stick with it and enjoy what little left you have on that paycheck of yours. Worry about you, and while you're at it, try not to impregnate another white woman OOW or anyone else for that matter.

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  55. ditto laa!!!

    why is it always ojs like uts who get so twisted when black women do as they do and simply prefer white/yellow men???

    self hating hypocrites!!!

    http://aliciabanks.vox.com/library/link/6a0123ddb39306860b01240ba9cc89860e.html

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  56. just as gays are the worst gaybashers

    ojs like uts dare to bash black women who date white men worst.

    go figure!?

    http://aliciabanks.vox.com/library/post/black-love-gray-lies.html

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  57. RK

    "I know I'm going to catch hell and all and well.. I have to ask..What IS it the is acceptable "look" for you two? If it's white - ain't right. Lightskinned, High Yellow or Red Bone, it ain't right. If they're AKA's it ain't right (But THEY DO LOOK GOOD!). Gotta weave? I bet that ain't right either. WHAT IS IT? "Enlighten" me, please."

    This is the deal right here my brutha.

    You've got some sisters who just plain ain't that attractive complaining that they're being ignored because they're dark.

    Or you find some who are lightskinned but overweight who'll complain that men are obsessed with the "thin model" type.

    I'm going to probably catch hell for this (so what) but I think alot of women don't understand that you're aren't owed anything in the romance game.

    You have to find somebody who is going to accept you for you.

    You can't demand somebody acknowledge that you're beautiful when you may not necessarily be.

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  58. Coffee and cigarettes11:47 AM

    i think her ass should've definitely been jailed. yes her partners should have worn condoms as a matter of routine BUT she knowingly played with their life. she's infected one person..if his life is shortened due to this than in my mind she is guilty of murder. and i hate to say it but i think if she was male than the sentence and reactions would be much harsher.
    the republican dude being gay reminds me of the whole hitler/ahamadinejad (however his name is spelt) having jewish ancestry story..ironic

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  61. Coffee and cigarettes11:50 AM

    Oh and happy birthday field!

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  62. Rottnkid said...
    Who knows why I care..Maybe it's the brown skinned little AKA sister of mine who holds a Masters from Vanderbilt with her REAL hair past the mid of her back and she gets hated on not for her accomplishments but FOR HER HAIR but woman like you can't seem to fathom that it's HER HAIR. Superficial..Yeah.. Or maybe it's my other sister who only wears her hair "natural" but to some people - SHE NEEDS A WEAVE. Superficial. So now you know why I care. I asked you a simple question but as usual you go and fuck it up. And thanks for the concern about knocking another white chick up...that mixed white girl I'm hanging out with tonight is a banger!

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  63. UTS says...I'm going to probably catch hell for this (so what) but I think alot of women don't understand that you're aren't owed anything in the romance game.

    You have to find somebody who is going to accept you for you.

    You can't demand somebody acknowledge that you're beautiful when you may not necessarily be.

    ---------------------------

    That's what I'm talking about!

    "You have to find somebody who is going to accept you for you.

    You can't demand somebody acknowledge that you're beautiful when you may not necessarily be."

    These 2 paragraphs need to be spammed.

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  64. uts/rk:

    when black men stop pretending that white women are flawless

    bfs will have no more problem with the flawed white choices you make

    ie

    there are millions more mean/ugly/fat/weaved/etc white women than black ones always!

    ie

    ask tiger and his club!

    To each her/his own. Why can’t Africans who need whiteness be as honest about needing whiteness as I am about needing blackness? Why can’t whites who increasingly need blackness do the same? Love is where we find it. But, I am disgusted by how many people blatantly dare to lie about the motivations of their amorous searches!!!

    I want eurocentric Africans to embrace their eurocentrism just as I embrace my afrocentrism. Stop insulting me with your lies about fictitious colorless realities where “race is not an issue”!!! That is akin to saying “oxygen is not an issue” or “gender is not an issue” or “income is not an issue” etc....



    Jazz stylist and author Abbey Lincoln managed to capture this exact same offensiveness as exhibited by heterosexual white women, in her enraged classic essay entitled “Who Will Revere The Black Woman?”, published in the renowned womanist anthology The Black Woman, edited by Toni Cade (1970):

    “We are the women whose bars and recreation halls are invaded by flagrantly disrespectful, bigoted, simpering, amoral, emotionally unstable, outcast, maladjusted, nyphomaniacal, condescending white women...in desperate and untiring search of the “frothing-at-the-mouth-for-a white-woman, strong backed, sixty-minute hot black”.... We are the women who, upon protesting this invasion of our privacy and sanctity and sanity, are called “jealous”, and “evil”, and “small-minded”, and “prejudiced”...

    When a white man “likes colored girls”, his woman (the white woman) is the last one he wants to know about it. Yet, seemingly, when a Negro “likes white girls”, his woman (the Black woman) is the first he wants to know about it. White female rejects and social misfits are flagrantly flaunted in our faces as the ultimate in feminine pulchritude. Our women are encouraged by our own men to strive to look and act as much like the white female image as possible, and only those who approach that “goal” in physical appearance and social behavior are acceptable. At best, we are made to feel that we are poor imitations and excuses for white women.

    Evil? Evil, you say? The Black woman is hurt, confused, frustrated, angry, resentful, frightened, and evil! Who in this hell dares suggest that she should be otherwise? These attitudes only point up her perception of the situation and her healthy rejection of the same.”

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  65. Meshell Ndegeocello powerfully conveyed this very same rage in her classic rebel tune entitled “Soul on Ice” from her debut CD Plantation Lullaby ( 1993):

    "We've been indoctrinated and convinced by the white racist standard of beauty

    The overwhelming popularity of seeing, better off being, and looking white

    My brothers attempt to defy the white man's law and his system of values

    Defile his white women....

    Visions of her virginal white beauty Dancin' in your head

    Your soul's on ice

    Illusions of her virginal white beauty dancin’ in your head

    You let my sisters go by

    Brother brother brother

    Are you suffering from a social infection/mis-direction

    Excuse me, does your white woman go better with your Brooks Brothers suit?...

    Used to be customary to bow one's eyes at the sight of a white face

    conks and fade creams

    sad passion

    deferred dreams

    I am a reflection of you

    Black and blue

    pure as the tears of coal-colored children

    crying for acceptance

    You can't run from yourself

    She's just an illusion...

    Black love anthems play behind white-skinned affection ...

    But you no longer burn for the motherland brown skin

    You want blond-haired, blue-eyed soul

    Snow White passion without the hot comb

    Is that open-minded love thing an equality thing?

    Take a look in the mirror

    You don’t love yourself..."

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  66. AB sis, Steve is a hot mess, he is incorrigible. He shows more of his black female misogynistic butt each day (and he’s always talking about tits and butts). He’s old enough to be my father, that alone is a hint to let me now that I’m dealing with a dirty old man.

    His usual banter and spiteful questioning is becoming pathological. He reminds me of a predator type who tries to make his/a victim repeat or verbally recite their attack or emotional pain so that he can constantly get his jollys going. I can’t encourage this disturbing behavior any longer. Ok cadet Steve, you win.

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  67. Who said white women are flawless?

    How many times do I have to say my wife is a darkskinned woman?

    You, LAA and that nutcase FP don't don't listen, don't debate, don't hear anybody.

    You just rant from your script.

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  68. "Maybe it's the brown skinned little AKA sister of mine who holds a Masters from Vanderbilt with her REAL hair past the mid of her back and she gets hated on not for her accomplishments but FOR HER HAIR but woman like you can't seem to fathom that it's HER HAIR. Superficial..Yeah.."

    You shouldn't make direct assumptions. Btw, by your taunts, I know you would love for me to describe myself, I know you’re curious.

    "And thanks for the concern about knocking another white chick up...that mixed white girl I'm hanging out with tonight is a banger!"

    Good for you. Make sure you wear a condom.

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  69. alicia banks said...
    uts/rk:

    when black men stop pretending that white women are flawless

    bfs will have no more problem with the flawed white choices you make

    ------------------

    Trust me, I have never thought any white woman as flawless and never will but I do understand what your saying because I've seen it..Hell it makes ME look bad..lol. All kidding aside, the choices I make are mine so I shouldn't be a problem for any black woman except my Mother and she "accepted" that I date pretty much anybody. I'm not exclusive to a certain race..lol, my track record is pretty colorful. Like I said in my past posts, I like all p***y. Period.

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  70. La♥audiobooks said...

    You shouldn't make direct assumptions. Btw, by your taunts, I know you would love for me to describe myself, I know you’re curious.

    ---------
    Read the last sentence on my last post.

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  71. RK

    What they don't understand is that the fat, homely white women sound just like them.

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  72. uts:

    to each their own

    ebony skin and nappy locks are sexy to me

    yet

    it is VERY deeply revealing that when you want to diss bfs you always name the darkest nappiest ones you can fathom

    when you want to bash single women with children you pretend they are all rich and black and selfish and unwanted etc

    even rk
    mentioning weaves and wt as if these are issues exclusive to black women

    we see you, YOUR OJ script, and all u do herein to prove to us that you hate the way that you yourselves and your moms look

    fyi

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  73. rk:

    i have no problem with you

    i have a problem with that rabid sexist colorist dog uts

    i love black women exclusively

    and we come in all shades and shapes

    enjoy!

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  74. I don't think UTS has a problem with Black Women at all just the ones who make it into a "problem". Just my opinion. And also thanks AB I definitely don't have a problem with you either!

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  75. uptownsteve said...
    RK

    What they don't understand is that the fat, homely white women sound just like them.
    ----------

    lol..No comment!

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  76. Hey Alicia, I just got invited to a screening of "Gen Silent" in RVA. It's about elderly gay couples. Should be interesting.

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  77. rk:

    u r far too kind to uts

    i guess you forgot that he called me a clone of the permed gabby sidibe?

    but that is why u r cool by me

    enjoy the film!

    peace

    ____

    ie

    uts:

    actually

    most fat homely white female can date any black man she chooses!...bet!!!

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  79. uts:


    most wm prefer their wfs anorexic

    so
    i see fat homely white females with bm who hate hfs as u do daily...

    and said women are usually driving the car, paying the tabs etc...

    said women "pay bm like they weigh"

    keep it real "bruh"

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  80. so
    i see fat homely white females with bm who hate BFs as u do daily...

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  81. Anonymous1:22 PM

    FN-

    I already explained WHY I think Black Women should get up and go home. She is not his mother and he has demonstrated that he can be irresponsible and use poor judgment in life and death situations.

    The flip is true for Black Men. I would have that SAME piece of advice for my loved ones that happen to be Black Men. IF he would have to INSIST on a condom she is demonstrating the same reckless behavior. But then, I tend to err on the side of caution plus I am a germophobe. Bad behavior that would rack up mad germs is a MAJOR turn off to me.

    Field, we know you consider the biracial look Black. I figured THAT out when I peeped your stalkerific side bar with the biracial actress that you seem a tad obsessed with despite being married. I have noticed that Jamaican men tend to be white skin obsessed like their American cousins. Where I live the Jamaicans males don't pretend, they get a overweight WW and call it a day. LOL!

    I have been around Moroccan folks, male AND female and trust, they don't share your belief that they are Black. LOL! The other half of her mixture doesn't either, but what difference does little things like facts make? Like you say. Plus you Western boys have a hard time just being honest in general. I have heard some of you trying to make Kim Kardashian a Black Woman, too, to justify the whiter skin obsession. LOL! I know an embaressed Armenian woman that tried the same thing--making her Black--- not because she was Armenian and shared her culture and complexion mind you, but because she sexes Black Men and has a big bottom. LOL! Her reasons for "considering" KK Black are just as valid I suppose. To shut her foolishness up and disengage, I used the same tactic folks use against Black Women and asked if she was jealous and hating? She shut right up because she isn't used to folks doing that to her to secure just that outcome. LOL!

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  82. Anonymous1:23 PM

    Regarding the cab driver (Mr. Sharif) who got slashed, the alleged assailant, Michael Enright, is — according to his Facebook profile and the website of the left-leaning media organization Intersections International — a student at the School of Visual Arts and a volunteer for Intersections, which recently produced a statement of support for the the Ground Zero Victory Mosque and is funded by the mainstream, liberal Collegiate Church of New York.

    So Field, no, he was apparently not taking his cues from Glenn Beck.

    From the beginning it was obvious that Enright is a psycho. It unsurprisingly appears that as with virtually all lunatics, his politics are liberal. If the attack had anything whatsoever to do with the Ground Zero Mosque, maybe it was because Sharif enraged Enright by failing to support it.

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  83. anon:

    preach!!!

    the very same bms who date homely fat white women would reject a sista with a perfect body or even the very same fat homely body in black skin...

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  84. "I don't think UTS has a problem with Black Women at all just the ones who make it into a "problem"."

    BINGO!

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  85. Anonymous1:29 PM

    AB-

    You are SO correct! SOMETIMES that sexism that some men covet and practice vehemently works AGAINST them! It seems only then can they see the injustice of the practice. LOL! Go figure.

    It is without question that this female's behavior is despicable to put it mildly. Though I think her lack of adequate punishment may be because she was tried as a minor in Juvenile court, rather than as an adult, moreso than because of her gender. She most definitely IS NOT Black because from what I can see courts are no more friendly to Black Women than they are to Black Men. But we won't go there right now...

    Field suggests it could be a gender issue. I am not sure how so considering those void of morals and disconnected from their humanity of BOTH GENDERS have sought to destroy the lives of others by doing the exact same thing.

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  86. "most fat homely white female can date any black man she chooses!...bet!!!"

    Omigod!

    Here's a beautiful young sister.

    Ms. Maryland USA

    http://www.missmarylandusa.com/mdteen_bio.html

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  87. anon:

    ditto

    a special kind of evil fashions such serial killers of all genders

    ie
    even rock hudson deliberately infected men with aids until his pal cher literally drug him out of his limo...

    he was even sued by a lover...
    but HE never spent a day in jail due to it...

    i just see a reverse sexism daily in how men are dogged in
    such sex crime cases...

    ie
    via my own former students' toxic parents' legal battles/my wife and her clients' family ct issues...

    many male sex crime victims and good unwed dads are dogged in ct
    each day...

    ie

    classic film called "the corner" showcases how a man suffers when women lie in ct etc...

    http://www.amazon.com/Corner-HBO-Miniseries-T-K-Carter/dp/B00009ATJZ

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  88. Anonymous1:41 PM

    LA YOU crack me up and read my mind routinely. Big hug sis. I enjoy being accused of being you as well. I take it as the compliment it is.

    "Whose infecting the brothers?"

    Black men have and exercise MANY options. Right? Isn't that what you guys scream about without provocation? The lack of discipline, standards and responsibility employed while exercising these options is legendary. In fact it has become a joke that folks openly proclaim and laugh about. Let's take oh say McNair for example. Think HIS WIFE thought she needed a condom with him? Probably no. BUT she did. Tiger's wife? Same thing. IF one looks at STDs by gender, males are infected in higher rates despite be fewer in numbers. It is one of the "perks" if you will of sexist double standards as it relates to sex and sexual responsibility.

    Hope that helped...LOL!

    Frankly, I don't know who is infecting who. I do know that anyone that you must INSIST act responsibly have demonstrated they should not be considered as viable sex partners.

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  89. alicia banks said...
    anon:

    preach!!!

    the very same bms who date homely fat white women would reject a sista with a perfect body or even the very same fat homely body in black skin...

    ------------


    Sounds nice about what you said but it's not simple like that. It has nothing to do with the body when they're "homely" like that (well depends, I seen some faces jacked, asses phat). A black male getting a homely fat white woman is easy money, you get what you want out of them, it's that "simple", and if they have good credit - Jackpot! Harsh..eh, but hey, who says the world is fair. OK LAA, I'm ready.

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  90. Anonymous1:44 PM

    Maria-

    I told your dingbat behind that I am NOT LA. Others beside her can see what an idiot you are and call it. Those were MY words and I meant every syllable.

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  91. rk:

    thanks for being honest unlike uts!

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  92. RK

    Would you date a fat ugly white woman period?

    Let alone over a fine black woman?

    That's RIDICULOUS.

    The twisted mental creation of an angry black feminist who just can't figure out why the bruthas aren't breaking her door down trying to get with her.

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  93. uts:

    you are questioning my delusions while claiming a happily wed black lesbian feminist wants any men at her door...especially reject oj clones like YOU???

    that is rich.

    MANY lost black men reject beautiful black women for ugly wfs every day...fat and skinny!

    i love elin wood!
    but i do not think she is pretty
    tyra banks is gorgeous
    and tiger dissed and dogged tyra before he wed elin.

    i rest my case.

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  94. i do not think elin is ugly.

    but she is not anywhere near as pretty as tyra banks or charlize theron/angelina jolie etc

    tiger's harem parade of countless homely skinny weaved hos proves he has horrid taste in wfs

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  95. That's why a brother should never seek the opinion of a woman about another woman's looks.

    Men and woman look at totally different things when judging beauty.

    Elin Woods is an attractive woman.

    If that makes me a eurocentric white woman lusting negro in your eyes, so be it.

    Tyra Banks is physically beautiful but fed up in the head.

    I don't think her and Tiger were ever serious.

    She seems to me to be the type who thinks she's too fine for any man so she will actually go out of her way to date ugly dudes.

    Seal. The dude from Amistad.

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  96. uptownsteve said...
    RK
    Would you date a fat ugly white woman period?
    Let alone over a fine black woman?
    That's RIDICULOUS.

    ------------------

    Nope (Yes LAA, I do have some standards). Never took one for the team either, not my style. I like 'em thick in the thighs, but not fat, just my preference.

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  97. RK

    This is one chocolate sister I'd like to put between two slices of bread.

    http://www.buffiethebody.com/

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  98. Since HIV/AIDS is in most populations, including the aged, it would be wise to practice safe sex regardless of the partners race or ethnicity.

    Blaming one group or another is not going into keep anyone from getting STD's.

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  99. Buffie the Bod! Yessir!!! Yes. Sir. Yes. Sir!
    I got a few that rotates on my screen saver at home.

    Sakara Ross

    http://dynastyseries.com/2010/08/sakara-ross-she-shot-the-sheriff/

    Jenna Shea

    http://dynastyseries.com/2010/08/jenna-shea-on-showgirlzexclusive-from-black-lingerie/

    Hell, just go to this website! All the thickness you need. You will not be disappointed. My get some jealous ladies though..lol..just kidding.

    http://dynastyseries.com/

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  100. again uts:

    beauty is universal
    and
    i have no problem with beauty in any race

    and beauty is always in the eye of the beholder but

    again
    u have chosen to diss 2 nappy dark men...shame!!!

    seal hs been scarred and is stll beautiful to me
    not to mention his silky voice

    and
    djimon hounsou is a 100 on a scale of 10 to me
    flawless regal perfection.

    to each their own

    ps:
    beauty is MUCH more than looks too...
    i like smart strong women
    that makes elin a 10 too

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  101. uts & rk:

    yes buffy is gorgeous!

    thank you

    that is all we sistas want is EQUAL props/disses as EQUALLY deserved...

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  102. alicia banks said...
    uts & rk:

    yes buffy is gorgeous!

    thank you

    that is all we sistas want is EQUAL props/disses as EQUALLY deserved...

    3:08 PM

    ------

    You gets no argument out of me, that's for sure!

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  103. ab

    you know better.

    I've always said that I thought you were an attractive woman.

    Crazy as hell but attractive for sure.

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  104. Anonymous4:25 PM

    uptown sounds like he's in love.

    Musta got all worked up clicking on buffie.

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  105. Anonymous4:51 PM

    UTS looks up porn all day at work.

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  106. uts:

    u have never met me

    i am not crazy at all

    just passionate and fiery
    laid back
    TOO playful
    reclusive (my taurus moon)
    bookish
    quiet
    cool
    comedienne...constantly!
    earthy
    typical leo lioness
    even shy one-on-one...

    when you are not being sexist,
    you are handsome and sexy too!

    so...maybe one day we can have make up sex...just kidding!


    smile
    have a great weekend
    ab

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  107. Anonymous5:23 PM

    "ALL who gaybash loudest are GAY!!!"

    Yes Ma'am! And those that profess to LOVE Black women the loudest with their mouths, by their BEHAVIOR usually demonstrate the exact opposite on the regular.

    Which is why it is a sound practice to look at what folks DO moreso than listening to what they SAY.

    Someone said:

    "A black male getting a homely fat white woman is easy money, you get what you want out of them, it's that "simple", and if they have good credit - Jackpot! Harsh..eh, but hey, who says the world is fair."

    And all Black women that encounter these males that will share with you this special take on logic, decency, character and integrity should BEWARE.

    I have met just such males before and listened as they spoke. Believe it or not, quite a few men (all colors) find it easy to talk to me. I listen well, sharp wit, laugh often, and encourage them to "school" me. LOL! And when they get to comfortable I sweetly check them.

    Folks acting like it is hard to get/keep a man are dining on lies. It is not difficult at all. I find quality men require the woman to bring intellect, patience, emotional discipline- so when she should be humoring him she isn't "reading" him, and a short memory so forgiveness isn't so difficult, among other qualities and attributes.

    Now back to the males that should be avoided...IF he shares this mentality with you:

    ""A black male getting a homely fat white woman is easy money, you get what you want out of them, it's that "simple", and if they have good credit - Jackpot! Harsh..eh, but hey, who says the world is fair."

    BW DON'T lie to yourself like you are special. DON'T lie to yourself like he only treats non blk women that way. IF he can use/exploit/disrespect ANY woman that way, IF you proceed to deal with him you simply got NEXT. And it is for this reason I am NOT mad when I see these couples.

    And for the one that continues to holler about his Black wife...Some Negroes that in all they say and do demonstrate an open contempt for Black Women LOVE to scream about their Black wives and now babymamas. I am sure McNair was quick to remind folks his wife was Black. Just as TO and Ochocinco can't wait to talk about their babymamas. Just as the daishiki (sp) wearing, fist raised, Black talking "brothas" routinely select the whitest women possible.

    Those that seek to scapegoat BW for FINALLY standing up and calling the deceitful behavior should take a rest. It was NOT BW that suggested to the world that Black males have an unnatural desire for white skin women. It was the BEHAVIOR of Black males that indicated this truth. In fact, it has been Black women with misplaced loyalties lying to themselves and anyone that would listen that any suggestion of this fetish was a racist lie.

    From the Moors to Fanon to MLK (sorry sacred cow kicking but it is true) to Pookie that can't afford but the hefty White Man rejects, Black Men have through BEHAVIOR demonstrated that where there is smoke, there is usually FIRE.

    Google African first ladies if you want to really stop playing...

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  108. anon:

    i learned in college at uiuc that the bros who were publicly neutral about wfs were usually the ones who dated black women exclusively like me...

    and the ones who blasted white women like farrakhan were usually the ones privately creeping into wf sorrority houses at night...

    ditto!

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  109. ps anon:

    ie

    i adore rev wright

    and i was shocked to find that he had a wf mistress

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  110. anon:

    we used to call such bros "dashiki ojs"

    we hated oj long before he slew nicole

    especially after jim brown busted oj in his own bio

    http://www.amazon.com/Jim-Brown-Out-Bounds/dp/0821728571

    ie

    van jones fits that description

    and there is a comical look at one in this film

    http://www.amazon.com/Menace-South-Central-While-Drinking/dp/B000001E8G

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  111. mellaneous5:46 PM

    Field you must be on the cusp I didn't realize that Virgo started this early, but welcome to the club. I am of the September variety.

    Hope you had a great day1

    Jody have fun at the march in DC in the old days I never used to miss a single national march or rally but I just got back from taking a bunch of kids camping and can't afford those trips like I used to but hope to make the October protest.

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  112. Anonymous5:50 PM

    AB-

    Now see, you may make nice but PLEASE don't tell LIES like these:

    "when you are not being sexist,
    you are handsome and sexy too!"

    LOL!

    AB we have much in common. Your description of yourself in many ways is how I would describe myself. Much love to you.

    I actually have love for all that post here. Even those with whom I disagree. We are all children of God and require patience, love, and understanding. Real talk.

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  113. mellaneous5:53 PM

    Field it never fails someone always says something absolutely foolish on the thread.

    This one wins the award for today!

    "It unsurprisingly appears that as with virtually all lunatics, his politics are liberal."

    Imagine that all the folks that participated in the Holocaust or Jim Crow segregation and terror were liberals.

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  114. anon:


    i am proud to be your kindred spirit my super slayer sista warrior!!!...

    have a regal weekend QUEEN!

    and i wish all of the anons were as cool as you!!!

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  115. Anonymous6:18 PM

    "You can't demand somebody acknowledge that you're beautiful when you may not necessarily be."

    True statement in part. The only thing I will add is:

    You can't demand somebody acknowledge that you're beautiful when you may not necessarily be TO THEM.

    I think all women and men are beautiful and exoticly, gloriously made. Now whether they are your cup or tea is thing...IF they are not, it serves no purpose to try to tear them down or ridicule them. That says more about the person doing it than the one on the receiving end of it.

    I wish more Black Women would STOP buying into the lie that God created another woman more exotic than they/we. THAT IS A LIE. From our hair, to our curves, to our skin tones...we are exoticly beautiful and need only to know it for ourselves. It is because of this truth and the fact that we are the Mothers of Humanity that we are so despised, ridiculed, and emulated; just like our sons, brothers, etc.

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  116. Anonymous said...
    Someone said:

    "A black male getting a homely fat white woman is easy money, you get what you want out of them, it's that "simple", and if they have good credit - Jackpot! Harsh..eh, but hey, who says the world is fair."

    And all Black women that encounter these males that will share with you this special take on logic, decency, character and integrity should BEWARE.

    BW DON'T lie to yourself like you are special. DON'T lie to yourself like he only treats non blk women that way. IF he can use/exploit/disrespect ANY woman that way, IF you proceed to deal with him you simply got NEXT. And it is for this reason I am NOT mad when I see these couples.

    ------------
    That someone is me. Car..er... Rottnkid. Hey, I'm just letting you know what I SEE, that's not how I roll - Karma is a bitch and you can and will get bitch slapped. Case in point: I know a dude who is dating this white chick who is making 6 figures, big white girl, Masters in Finance, excellent credit, OWNS here own home, will do anything for your black ass. Black Dude is skinny, damn near almost frail, but a good looking dude and has an education, he's a teacher. He dumped his skinny euro chick for the fat check er..Chick, why? Because she flew his ass out to Vegas on her dime because she didn't want to go alone. Guess what he moved in, she bought him a ride. Hell, she helps take care of his 100% black daughter. You think he's gonna marry her - no. Why? Because I seen his black ass out with a another skinny euro chick and they weren't playing checkers either. BUT I'm seeing the other black dudes lining up to take his spot. So yeah brothers are seeing the "easy benefits". But to be fair I've seen big sisters, black woman, doing the same thing that big white girl is doing and guess what? It's the same shit.

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  117. My Karma statement came out wrong..So I apologize if you got the wrong impression.; I don't play games when it comes to women because I wouldn't want the same crap to come back to me.

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  118. Anonymous6:41 PM

    AB, "i adore rev wright

    and i was shocked to find that he had a wf mistress"

    YOU LIE!! Prove it!!

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  119. Anonymous said...
    I think all women and men are beautiful and exoticly, gloriously made. Now whether they are your cup or tea is thing...IF they are not, it serves no purpose to try to tear them down or ridicule them. That says more about the person doing it than the one on the receiving end of it.
    ---------

    Nice. I'm digging the statement. I think that's UTS and I were trying to say. Once again - Very Nice.

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  120. Good comments today, even from you LAA, I'm out you can catch me at:

    Warcraft Footy Frenzy 5.4, 7.2. Azeroth Portal. Warrior name: Street_Pirate (Thanks CF). 90% win rate. Time to kick some 13 year olds ass. Peace.

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  121. Anonymous7:16 PM

    It's such a shame that such a beautiful bw would do such a thing. BW need to learn to take care of themselves, and take precautionary measures, instead of expecting someone else be responsible for their good health. Sorry girls, it's time to grow up and stop blaming others for your mess. BM are not your daddies.

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  122. Anonymous7:36 PM

    Anon @ 7:16pm- Just a little too much love and peace in the comments, eh?

    The devil is ALWAYS busy!

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  123. Anonymous8:17 PM

    I was Blocked from Field's Blog last night, i gave my opinion of what, I felt about Glenn Beck and his disrespect for Dr. King, see it's okay if, white people attempt to Dehumanize, black people on this Blog, it's okay if Felicia Bank's Cuss's up a storm and take's over your Blog, what i wrote should be screamed out loud, but, you would not post it, was it because you are finding out, you are not a Field Negro after all?

    ISEEISEE

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  124. Anonymous8:18 PM

    mellaneous said...

    "Imagine that all the folks that participated in the Holocaust or Jim Crow segregation and terror were liberals."

    Why yes. Hitler was a (national) socialist, and Jim Crow was enforced by Democrats.

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  125. "Yes Ma'am! And those that profess to LOVE Black women the loudest with their mouths, by their BEHAVIOR usually demonstrate the exact opposite on the regular."

    Black women, like black men, white women, white men, Asian men, and Aleutian transvestites come in a plethora of types, personalities, and characters.

    Which is why these conversations tend to be silly and I tend to be flippant when engaging in them.

    It seems as though we black folks are the only ones who have them.

    If we learn to love ourselves then all the fingerpointing, accusing and anger will cease.

    Think about it.

    Happy Birthday Brother Field.

    Have a good weekend everyone!

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  126. Anonymous8:44 PM

    iseeisee, please post it here quick before he moderates this one.

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  127. Anonymous8:52 PM

    What’s the ultimate argument against affirmative action? This weenie was made Commander in Chief of the Armed Forces of the United States of America.

    Yes, that's a girl's bicycle.

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  128. was Blocked from Field's Blog last night, i gave my opinion of what, I felt about Glenn Beck and his disrespect for Dr. King, see it's okay if, white people attempt to Dehumanize, black people on this Blog, it's okay if Felicia Bank's Cuss's up a storm and take's over your Blog, what i wrote should be screamed out loud, but, you would not post it, was it because you are finding out, you are not a Field Negro after all?

    Not true! ISEE..I thought you were a Christian? :)

    Rotnnkid, what is that? Some kind of new handle? I am missing something.

    Thanks to all the folks who gave me a B-Day shout out again, today. The actual day was yesterday, but it's still all good. To all the fam. on FaceBook who shouted out a brotha; right back at ya.

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  129. Wear your jimmy hat. Better yet, keep your pee-pee in your pants.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=12mbmoEJ2dg

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  130. Kathy9:06 PM

    ohh i wish i knew about your facebook before, Happy Birthday to my fave blogger, FN, I think I gonna look an see if I can get on your facebook now. LOL! Happy Birthday!

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  131. Anonymous9:27 PM

    Kathy, "ohh i wish i knew about your facebook before,"

    Facebook? Field has a facebook? What is that about? There's internet, facebook, twitter, text messages, iphone, cellphone, ipod, ipad...WTF? There's too much shit going on.

    Just post your birthday in your sidebar and leave it there so everybody can know. All that bookface and twit-text stuff is bullshit.

    Field, why can't you just keep it simple and stop fucking with me?

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  132. field, you wrote:

    "Marriage is NOT a private matter"? Mr. Bopp (I love that name) you have got to be kidding me.

    Sorry field, but marriage is a very PUBLIC matter. Both legally and socially.

    As for Mehlman, he looks as straight as Liberace.

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  133. gregory,

    Michael Enright, the cabbie stabber, was arrested and will face the consequences for committing his crime.

    Take note. No one is defending his actions. Not even his mother. But I do believe we will learn that Enright has a touch of schizophrenia.

    Fortunately Enright's case is less severe than Colin Ferguson's. Do you know who Colin Ferguson is and what he did?

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  134. Anonymous9:37 PM

    Field what is your facebook address?

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  135. Anonymous9:39 PM

    Field I can't find your facebook, I want to add you but I dont want anyone to know who I am. Can y u post your address?

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  136. To the anons above I am as clueless about this stuff as you guys. Believe me.:(

    Shoot me an e-mail {fnblg@yahoo.com} and I will link you to it.

    "Fortunately Enright's case is less severe than Colin Ferguson's. Do you know who Colin Ferguson is and what he did?"

    Yes n_s we do. He shot and killed some white people.I know you are probably still steamed about that one, since you value white lives much more than black ones. ;)

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  137. no slappz

    "Fortunately Enright's case is less severe than Colin Ferguson's. Do you know who Colin Ferguson is and what he did?"

    Yeah racist.

    We all know who Colin Ferguson is.

    His profile is on A&E Biography every week.

    Do you know who Barcuch Goldstein, David Berkowitz and Joel Rifkin are?

    http://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&cd=1&ved=0CBUQFjAA&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.trutv.com%2Flibrary%2Fcrime%2Fserial_killers%2Fpredators%2Frifkin%2F1.html&ei=7Gp4TPHpK-adlQfWpqWWDg&usg=AFQjCNECYamuV6PVlvU9iFnrDcaL145sDA

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  138. field, you wrote:

    He (ferguson) shot and killed some white people.I know you are probably still steamed about that one, since you value white lives much more than black ones.

    First, he shot them solely BECAUSE they were white. He shot at least a dozen and killed 8 or 9.

    Meanwhile, your claim about how I value black lives less than white lives is one of those non-sequiturs that seem to come from people who are desperate to ignore the facts.

    First, having never murdered anyone of any race, it's clear that I give equal value to all.

    However, if we examine the kill rate of blacks and whites, it is painfully evident that blacks give black life very little value.

    Meanwhile, muslims make a point of reminding the world they love death more than we (I'm not sure who's included in the muslim "we") love life.

    The latest statistics out of Colombia show the country is the murder capital of the planet. That's what open warfare among drug smugglers, rebel forces and the government gets you.

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  139. Anonymous11:39 PM

    The only one who did not now "lite in the loafers" GOP Ken is gay is Barbie

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  140. Anonymous11:40 PM

    no_slappz, "However, if we examine the kill rate of blacks and whites, it is painfully evident that blacks give black life very little value."

    I hate to admit it, but you are right. You have touched on something that every Black knows is true.

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  141. Anonymous11:49 PM

    AB-

    Jim Brown should sit down and STFU (shut the freak up) as it relates to OJ! Wasn't he beating sistas and tossing them off of balconies? Uh huh! As far as I am concerned NBS took one for the team. She had the materially comfortable lifestyle as a trade off. Too bad she did not have a girlfriend to hook Jim Brown up with---they could have shopped until the next beating or untimely death. I am NOT mad at these women and wish I could send thank you notes to ALL of them.

    That sounds mean, I know. I am just dead serious about Black Women and Black Girls though. WE are LONG OVERDUE for some peace, protection, love, and respect.

    Have a great weekend!

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  142. Anonymous2:17 AM

    UTS-

    I started to let it fly but decided against doing so. With so much love on this thread, now would be a perfect time to hopefully speak into your listening.

    Despite what you think, Goddesses like AB, LA, Anon that Maria thinks is LA and you think is FP (FP seems to occupy a lot of your mental space despite exiting stage left around the same time of CF) really ARE listening and most importantly PAYING ATTENTION. You lose the ability to hear when these throw off tradition and stand up and speak, plain talk and truthfully about our observations.

    IF you paid attention to what is being said, you will see none of us have difficulty calling it for the women (all colors) either.

    You may think you are coming across as flippant. You are not. You are coming off as in deep denial and most importantly ACTING as one that truly hates BW. Your callous disregard of the bulk of Black Americans saddens the heart. Your pride that your sons are so disconnected that they would be surprised to learn that other Black young men just like them are in crisis is nothing of which to be proud. If folks are UNAWARE/ignorant of a problem, how in the world can they begin to be a part of the solution?

    In one of your other comments, I realized that your staunch denial, that ALL have addressed at one time or another; is born of a sense of helplessness. You are not sure WHAT you can do to make things better, and asked for someone to tell you.

    IF you live in a community where the folks are thriving and doing well as I do, you may need to venture outside of your comfort zone to touch the lives of those that are not so blessed. Those of us that are blessed have greater responsibility.

    UTS, do you have any idea how much opposition I face when I suggest to younger Black Women that "babymamadom" is dishonorable, disgraceful and should be avoided at ALL costs? Have you ANY idea how many young Black Women/Black Girls think that "marriage is for White Women?" The devaluing has been so deep rooted that they understand fully that marriage is not just for White Women and White Men unions, but for White Women. White Women can marry ANYONE.

    You mistake my passion for being a part of solution as "hatred". Nothing is farther from the truth. I speak because to be silent in the face of what is transpiring on my watch would be worse than negligent. I.LOVE.Black.People, and when folks love you, they will tell you the truth, when others that couldn't care less about you will shine you on.

    I won't go as far as to claim you are "sexy" and such. LOL! AB was doing too much on that one. LOL! I DO pray that you can hear me and stand in the light of understanding. I pray that you and other Black Men like you will stand up and be counted. Time is of the essence. Folks, Black Folks, are suffering and dying in large numbers, while too many of us that have been blessed with much wrap ourselves in willful ignorance and complacency.

    Men and Women working in unison, according to our roles, result in BALANCE, progress, and prosperity. THAT is the ONLY thing that other huemans do that Blacks neglect to do. The madness we see around us is NOT inherent due to Blackness. You have made that assertion before and I have not yet seen any of the women you take to task stake such a claim.

    The womenfolk will/should/must address each other and the menfolk must do the same.

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  143. uptownsteve, you wrote:

    Do you know who Barcuch Goldstein, David Berkowitz and Joel Rifkin are?

    You are the king of non-sequiturs. I mention a black anti-white racist psycho who deliberated targeted, shot and killed whites and you respond with irrelevant examples of three white serial killers whose acts had nothing in common with Ferguson's.

    Rifkin? Killed 17 prostitutes of all races.

    Berkowtiz killed a handful of whites.

    Goldstein killed about 30 muslims in the West Bank. In other words, though Goldstein did target muslims, he committed his crime in another country, which means the story has no connection to the discussion.

    However, since you want to go worldwide, that means we have to consider Rwanda and the 800,000 murders committed there. Moreover, Rwanda and the massacre is back in the news today. See the NY times.

    According to a new UN report, as bad as the story was, it now seems even worse than originally thought.

    By the way, the Rifkin story claimed he was NY State's most prolific serial killer. That's wrong. He's been beaten out by a black guy.

    A few years ago in upstate NY a young black male who was either HIV+ or actually suffering from AIDS infected at least 19 females with the disease.

    He was caught and prosecuted, but he did infect 19 others with a fatal disease. Nice.

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  144. Yeah, Field, happy birthday!

    Getting AIDS is the natural result of having sex indiscriminately and without condoms, just like getting pregnant. It's not a nice fact, but I distributed fifteen condoms to my seventeen year-old step daughter and urged her to give them to friends whom she knows are having unprotected sex. EVERY teenager knows someone who is doing that, either as a friend or as an acquaintance.

    While we're on the topic, remember that pubic lice can be spread by intercourse regardless of whether the parties use condoms, foam and birth-control pills. OUCH!!! My step-daughter says I already warned her about that, so it's not necessary to warn her again.

    Hey, there's a great movie out with Samuel L. Jackson as an extremely color-aroused member of the LA police department who can't handle it when a white man/Black woman couple move in next door. Can a Black man really have Extreme Color Aroused Disorder? Watch the movie and tell me if the dramatization changes your opinion! :)

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  145. Anonymous8:12 PM

    Anon, "Your pride that your sons are so disconnected that they would be surprised to learn that other Black young men just like them are in crisis is nothing of which to be proud. If folks are UNAWARE/ignorant of a problem, how in the world can they begin to be a part of the solution?"

    There is only one other group of kids disconnected from other Black young men...Whites. That tells a lot about UTS and his selfish self-centered character. It's ugly.

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  146. Blogger maria said...

    MR!!! what a nice surprise to see you. seriously. please stay! hope your son and husband are well! it's very early in ca.
    maria

    Thanks Maria. I am going through some trials but my son, husband and dog are fine. Thanks for asking. I see you have been out on the prowl letting people know what's up! Good for you!

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  147. thank you for replying. i sent you an email.

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  148. anon

    "You may think you are coming across as flippant. You are not. You are coming off as in deep denial and most importantly ACTING as one that truly hates BW."

    Sorry but this is absolute nonsense.

    Unlike you and LAA, I have NEVER blanketly characterized or stereotyped bw as you repeatedly have with black men.

    You sistas consistently attribute negative traits and behavior to black men generally and I resent it.

    What cracks me up is your incredible hypocrisy displayed by taking comments that I direct specifically at manhaters and protofemmes as hatred of black women.

    I've been happily married to beautiful accomplished black queen for 23 years.


    "Your callous disregard of the bulk of Black Americans saddens the heart. Your pride that your sons are so disconnected that they would be surprised to learn that other Black young men just like them are in crisis is nothing of which to be proud. If folks are UNAWARE/ignorant of a problem, how in the world can they begin to be a part of the solution?"

    I disagree with you that a crisis exists among the bulk of African-Americans.

    That is the rhetoric of racists and self-hating blacks.

    We are the only people on earth that as defined by the dysfunctional minority.

    Yes there are a disproportianate amount of black Americans in poverty and dysfunction.

    Why do you make them the face of the entire community?

    Do you wish you were white?

    "In one of your other comments, I realized that your staunch denial, that ALL have addressed at one time or another; is born of a sense of helplessness. You are not sure WHAT you can do to make things better, and asked for someone to tell you."

    And they didn't answer. I'm well aware of the underclass. What are your suggestions for improving their condition?

    Negroes like you just run your mouths, trying to convince yourselves and white folks that you're not a "victim" and realize that black people alone in this society have to change and elevate themselves to the level of other American citizens.

    "IF you live in a community where the folks are thriving and doing well as I do, you may need to venture outside of your comfort zone to touch the lives of those that are not so blessed. Those of us that are blessed have greater responsibility."

    What are you doing?

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  150. "UTS, do you have any idea how much opposition I face when I suggest to younger Black Women that "babymamadom" is dishonorable, disgraceful and should be avoided at ALL costs?"

    Who is the opposition coming from?

    The black women you talk to themselves because I know damn well you aren't talking to any black men.

    "Have you ANY idea how many young Black Women/Black Girls think that "marriage is for White Women?" The devaluing has been so deep rooted that they understand fully that marriage is not just for White Women and White Men unions, but for White Women. White Women can marry ANYONE."

    That's where you work lies then. Convince them that they have to take responsibility for themselves.


    "I won't go as far as to claim you are "sexy" and such."

    You don't have to sweetie.

    I hear it all the time from others.

    "I DO pray that you can hear me and stand in the light of understanding. I pray that you and other Black Men like you will stand up and be counted."

    And I also pray that black women like you will accept their responsibility and stop posturing as victims.

    "Men and Women working in unison, according to our roles, result in BALANCE, progress, and prosperity. THAT is the ONLY thing that other huemans do that Blacks neglect to do. The madness we see around us is NOT inherent due to Blackness. You have made that assertion before and I have not yet seen any of the women you take to task stake such a claim."

    Nonsense.

    I have repeatedly made the case that so called "black" problems are socio-economic issues and middle class upwardly mobile, THE MAJORITY OF OUR COMMUNITY, have the same values and behavior as anyone else.

    "The womenfolk will/should/must address each other and the menfolk must do the same."

    It seems to me that you are obsessed with wagging your finger at black men and refusing make black women accountable as well

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  151. dumb assnon:

    rev w and his white mistress are VERY old news

    your lack of research is not my flaw.

    ditto for your arrogant ignorance.

    got google?

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  152. dicedicyicy:

    you are a liar and a fool.

    got dyslexia too?

    ALICIA BANKS

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  153. uts:

    fyi:

    i always distinguish between kings and court jesters
    toxic parents and great parents
    good young parents and turbo breeders etc

    ask ANY hated group of others if they are not ALSO ALL judged by the LEAST among them

    ie
    muslims
    gays
    poor
    etc

    when men who bash women tell women not to feel like/be victims
    it is akin to white racist oppressors telling the blacks they oppress to stop whining...

    it is hypocritical and cruel to expect anyone to suffer in silence
    especially when that silence is brazenly demanded from the very sources of their pain!

    ____

    anon:

    ditto sista!

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  154. Not sure I buy the whole bit of Nadja transmitting the virus to this guy. According to the CDC, the transmission period for HIV is 6 month maximum. The problem is that once you are infected, unless you're diagnosed immediately when you are symptomatic, there is no way for a doctor to tell when the infection occurred. Unless this guy was tested within 6 months of having unprotected sex with her, there is no to tell if she infected him.

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