I must confess that I have never quite understood the allure of dating sites. Personally, I always preferred to meet my dates the old fashion way. Now it all just seems so damn easy: Stay at home, log into your computer, pay a few bucks, and sign up to meet the girl or guy of your dreams.
Of course, as luck would have it, this is no longer my concern. Being bound by the bonds of matrimony has made my dating habits something to talk and write about in the past tense.
Not everyone shares my views on this issue. Some folks swear by dating sites. Which is why they are so popular and making a lot of people very wealthy.
And it's not only for single people. I first heard about Ashley Madison from a married friend of mine, who couldn't resist telling me what I was missing every chance he got.
I wonder how he feels now?
Yes my friends, Ashley has been hacked. And apparently the hackers are showing no mercy. They are going to put everybody's business out there. (Memo to presidential candidates: Now might be a good time to come clean.)
Here is the first "celebrity" to be outed.
"The Ashley Madison hacks have seemingly outed one prominent public figure so far: Josh Duggar, the eldest son of 19 Kids and Counting‘s Jim Bob and Michelle Duggar.
According to Gawker, Duggar had a paid account with the famed website for extramarital affairs while working at the Family Research Council (FRC), a D.C.-based Christian conservative organization. His account information has been tracked to his home, as well as another residence owned by his grandmother.
Duggar became a national pariah after admitting this May to acts of child molestation, and the resulting backlash led TLC to cancel his family’s show in July.
Duggar has repeatedly made efforts to apologize for his actions, but in last night’s data dump of hacked information from the cheating website, someone was shown to have used a credit card with his name and billing address (as screen-grabbed by Gawker):"
No surprise here. Nothing this hypocritical weasel does surprises me. And I am quite sure that there will be more like him to come.
I repeat: If you are running for public office and you signed up with Ashley Madison, now might be a good time to come clean.
"The massive leak attributed to the hackers who rooted to the Ashley Madison dating website for cheaters has been confirmed to be genuine. As if that wasn't bad enough, the 10 gigabytes of data—compressed, no less—is far more wide-ranging than almost anyone could have imagined.
Researchers are still poring over the unusually large dump, but already they say it includes user names, first and last names, and hashed passwords for 33 million accounts, partial credit card data, street names, and phone numbers for huge numbers of users, records documenting 9.6 million transactions, and 36 million e-mail addresses. While much of the data is sure to correspond to anonymous burner accounts, it's a likely bet many of them belong to real people who visited the site for clandestine encounters. For what it's worth, more than 15,000 of the e-mail addresses are hosted by US government and military servers using the .gov and .mil top-level domains." [Source]
Have mercy!
What is it those old church ladies used to say? "Jesus take the wheel"
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Is Ashley white or black? I bet a lot of Conservatives like Bill is sweating bullets. I have a sneaky suspicion that PX and PC are in that number also.
ReplyDeleteOh yeah, FAITH. Anybody with a name like that is sinning her ass off. And everybody knows Lilac put the "I" in sIn.
Yep, judgment day is just around the corner.
I was thinking that FP the bible quoter would be listed, but the more I think about it, FP probably did the hacking! Well, she's been trying to get Americans to go on their knees and pray. This oughta do it. I bet millions are praying.......Lord have mercy.
ReplyDeleteAhahahaa! and the 'S' in sex! x*D
ReplyDeleteSex is good stuff Mr 'The' Field! Can you honestly think of a better feeling than orgasm?
Hellooooo! No right?
and God made it that way so that we would do it.
and have the kiddies and put up with all that ish and hard work! But hey, we did it over and over and over and over and...let me stop :)
Anyway...these guys and gals I'm sure, wanna have a little variety,and who can blame them, with so much beauty out there for sale. It's normal and natural for people to wander outside of marriage when that marriage is no longer fulfilling them in certain ways. And yes, this often most likely leads to divorce, break up.
What isn't normal is the hypocrisy of these certain individuals that just lie through their teeth day after day. Casting aspersions at others,even preaching morality in underwear as the saying goes here: "predicando la moral en calzoncillos" While all the time doing the dirty.
But philandering is a part of being human. Ashley just cashing in on it especially with the hypocritical types. this is America after all! Land of milk and honey, and sex!
In the old days everyone stayed with ONE person. There was no infidelity. Now Americans are 'infidels' and that is against Divine Law because it is adultery.
ReplyDeleteWhere has our moral ethics gone?
You know, there's a black version of Ashley Madison out there - it's called La'Tasha Robinson. On it, married bros and hos can get dey freak on with similar-minded melanin-rich people. Just enter your EBT card number, snap a few selfies of yourself in your best weave, and you're ready to go!
ReplyDeleteHere's my story - in fact, it's along the lines of an AARP article published a few years ago citing long-married couples divorcing mid-life.
ReplyDeleteNot having a clue about 21st century dating with a complex work world to boot, I ventured into online dating. Of course, that old song "Games People Play" reigned supreme along with married folks and foreign scam artists.
Just when the situation seemed hopeless, I somehow kept the "Faith" and met the most amazing man who I treasure immensely. It's now close to three years since meeting online, for which we consider our relationship God's gift to one another.
It's my experience there is no one size fits all in meeting that special someone. How many folks can talk a good game until the house of cards come tumbling down?
Infidelity can exist whether meeting a spouse at a party, in church, through friends/family, etc. Though true one must be especially careful with online encounters, I'm living proof it's very possible encountering someone who shares your faith, values and sense of purpose.
Latasha Robinson... That's funny, dude!
ReplyDeleteWow! Faith you have given me the courage to go online and start dating. But how do you know who is Black, Brown, or White? I mean, how do you avoid a "Fatal Attraction" relationship with a woman. Women can be abusive and crazy, esp those PR women.
ReplyDeleteA man can't be too careful these days.
How much you wanna bet a few bible quoting conservatives will be outed. $10 says Ricky Santorum is in the mix. If someone is dumb enough to use their real name on a site like that they deserve to get outed.
ReplyDeleteThere's a big white supremacist(CCC) event happening this weekend in Nashville, TN. BTW, it's the same group that Dyland Roof got his inspiration from to kill nine AAs in church. Tennessee seems to a hate/group haven for conventions and conferences. As a bm, I'd hate to live in that state.
ReplyDeletehttp://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2015/08/19/hate-group-charleston-shooter-nashville-conference/32032529/
I agree with Faith. My brother met and married a great woman online,and so did a second cousin of mine.
ReplyDeleteMe, I'm real old fashioned that way, it's not for me, and contrary to popular opinion, ;) am quite timid and reserved in the 'real world'
Although maybe if I was actually looking...But I'm quite content as is.
But I think that dating sites are different from the sex for sale type sites, and these religious holier than thou types preaching morality that they most certainly do not espouse, should def be outed!
I just want to add as a disclaimer that IF my name should appear on that list: IT'S A LIE!!!
Brother PX, I resent what you said about Rick Santorum. He is not that kind of a guy. Why he gave Blacks a new name which you readily adopted and have been using ever since...."blahs". So show some respect.
ReplyDeleteLilac, "Although maybe if I was actually looking...But I'm quite content as is."
ReplyDeleteI believe you. That man who tried to sail to PR to jump in bed with you never made it across the Atlantic. After that, you've never been the same. I bet some great White shark is still licking his chops. I swear. Those Whites are everywhere.
Where are those sorry ass Black sharks when you need them to help you out? TNB... whether on land or water. they are never around when the shit hits the fan. Your sailor man might be alive today if he had had some help.
Did you bake a cake and drop it into the Atlantic as a heartfelt goodbye? I bet that evil white shark ate the cake too.
I am so sorry.
I hear Trump has extended his lead as the GOP candidate. You Negroes still think he is a joke? You had better start getting real.
ReplyDeleteSpeaking of church ladies Field, did you hear about those 2 aspiring Rhodes Scholars that ambushed a 78 year old woman at a church in Omaha, Nebraska?
ReplyDeleteOf course microaggressions, macro aggressions, slavery, institutionalized racism, slavery, colonialism, slavery, poverty and of course slavery is to blame for these 2 honor students who smashed an old lady in the back of the head and stole her purse.
-Slugs for Thugs.
Anonymous said...
ReplyDeleteLilac, "Although maybe if I was actually looking...But I'm quite content as is."
I believe you. That man who tried to sail to PR to jump in bed with you never made it across the Atlantic. After that, you've never been the same. I bet some great White shark is still licking his chops. I swear. Those Whites are everywhere.
Where are those sorry ass Black sharks when you need them to help you out? TNB... whether on land or water. they are never around when the shit hits the fan. Your sailor man might be alive today if he had had some help.
Did you bake a cake and drop it into the Atlantic as a heartfelt goodbye? I bet that evil white shark ate the cake too.
I am so sorry.
12:33 AM
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and how can u be sure I'm not happily married?
You guys believe everything you read?
Maybe I've got a husband hidden away somewhere in 'real life' xD
You'll never know, and I'll never tell ;)
PilotX said...
ReplyDeleteHow much you wanna bet a few bible quoting conservatives will be outed. $10 says Ricky Santorum is in the mix. If someone is dumb enough to use their real name on a site like that they deserve to get outed.
The list says there are 44 emails registered on the Ashley Madison site with a "WhiteHouse.gov" address.
Did they find an email from the wookieNeedsARealMan on there?
The Wookie IS a man - dem arms, bro!
ReplyDeleteAnon@10 41, don't quit your day job (if u have one) you are not quite ready for the comedy circuit. A little career advice: stop getting your jokes from sites like stormfront.
ReplyDelete"I hear Trump has extended his lead as the GOP candidate. You Negroes still think he is a joke? You had better start getting real."
ReplyDeleteElecting a psychopath to run your country is a joke alright.
A sick joke, but a joke none the less.
For anyone interested in such arcane concepts as 'facts' and 'reality', here is a good take-down of everything Trump's proposed immigration policy gets wrong.
ReplyDeleteIt's a long list.
http://fivethirtyeight.com/datalab/everything-donald-trumps-immigration-plan-gets-wrong/
The FieldNegro said...
Here is the first "celebrity" to be outed.
Outing seems to be the theme of the day.
Family Member Confirms to CNN That #BlackLivesMatter Activist Shaun King Is White
http://www.mediaite.com/tv/family-member-confirms-to-cnn-that-blacklivesmatter-activist-shaun-king-is-white/
Duggar played his wife for a fool.
Shaun King played #BlackLivesMatters for fools.
Bill said...
ReplyDeleteShaun King played #BlackLivesMatters for fools.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
This man is no more White than Michael Ealy. Shaun King is just a man with a birth certificate listing a Whiter man as his birth father to hide that shame that his Momma had an affair with a person of color.
And like Jayne Mansfield (who represents the biggest bamboozle of Whites in history), Shaun just looks White, he is NOT White. So since we're talking about Whites with Black features, let's throw in Racheal Dolezel for good measure.
Like I keep trying to tell you White folks, you ain't as White as you think you are. If you had ancestors here in America before and during slavery, then there's a 99.99999999999999% chance you're descended from a rapist and sodimist that couldn't keep his grimy ass away out of the slave quarters.
Jesus better call a tow truck.
ReplyDeleteI wonder if the internet is approaching a point where hacking is completely out of control?
ReplyDeleteBlacks are too accepting of mediocrity.
ReplyDeleteAnyone else NOT surprised that male whooteemoos support Trump? The man take his wife (Ivanka) AND ho' on vacation in Colorado AT THE SAME TIME and he's a "legit" presidential candidate.
ReplyDeleteHis current wife had her nipples on the cover of a magazine, and she's considered classy and first lady material?
WTF?!?!?!?
took! URGH, LOL!!!
ReplyDeleteWhites are too accepting of mediocrity.
ReplyDeleteThere
Anyone else NOT surprised that male whooteemoos support Trump? The man take his wife (Ivanka) AND ho' on vacation in Colorado AT THE SAME TIME and he's a "legit" presidential candidate.
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That doesn't necessarily disqualify him for President. Lots of world leaders have mistresses. Now the insane policies and goofy gaffs? Now those should disqualify him.
Yīshēng said...
Trump? The man take his wife (Ivanka) AND ho' on vacation in Colorado AT THE SAME TIME and he's a "legit" presidential candidate.
I remember the old days when Clinton was having sex in the White House with a woman other than his wife and people on the left didn't have a problem with it and insisted it was his private business.
What's changed?
http://thinkprogress.org/justice/2015/08/20/3693573/michigan-state-bar-humilated-after-giving-award-to-white-supremacist-for-racist-revenge-fantasy/
ReplyDeleteCheck this Field.
Bill said...
ReplyDeleteWhat's changed?
>>>>>
The difference Billy Boy is that Clinton didn't have his ho' AND wife/kids on vacay at the same time. In other words, he wasn't an arrogant, wig wearing, bleach blonde, bastard flaunting his affairs like Trump.
ReplyDeleteYīshēng said...
Bill said...
Shaun King played #BlackLivesMatters for fools.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
This man is no more White than Michael Ealy. Shaun King is just a man with a birth certificate listing a Whiter man as his birth father
Have you seen the family photo when he had curly red hair?
http://m.snopes.com/2015/08/19/shaun-king/
http://www.alternet.org/news-amp-politics/sarah-palin-incoherently-gushes-over-donald-trumps-joe-sixpack-mentality-video
ReplyDeleteHoly gawd! And to think the Republicans thought it was a good idea to let this woman stand one lack of a heartbeat away from the button. Now The Donald as front runner isn't so weird with this crowd.
Carson/Cain 16!
Yīshēng said...
Bill said...
What's changed?
>>>>>
The difference Billy Boy is that Clinton didn't have his ho' AND wife/kids on vacay at the same time.
Clinton lied and deceived both his wife and the country.
This is 2015, we are no longer required by law to believe in that 1 man 1 woman marriage thing anymore.
Maybe Trumps wife doesn't care he gets some on the side.
Bill Cosby's wife didn't have a problem with Bill getting some until the reports of drugging surfaced.
Bill, are you really this dense? Black people can have curly red hair too and he could have Irish ancestors, like I do.
ReplyDeleteDUH!!!
Bill said...
ReplyDeleteClinton lied and deceived both his wife and the country.
>>>>>>>>>>>>
No shit! Do you really think there's an honest politician in America?
Yīshēng said...
Bill said...
Clinton lied and deceived both his wife and the country.
>>>>>>>>>>>>
No shit! Do you really think there's an honest politician in America?
Of course there are honest ones.
They are the ones that lose elections.
Yīshēng said...
Bill, are you really this dense? Black people can have curly red hair too and he could have Irish ancestors, like I do.
I'm a musician, not a doctor. Does that answer your question?
If I saw a picture of you at around 7 years old, would I think you are a white red-headed kid?
"His current wife had her nipples on the cover of a magazine, and she's considered classy and first lady material?
ReplyDeleteWTF?!?!?!?"
White privilege. :)
Bill, I bet whatever instrument you play only allows you to play one song: Dems bad, repubs good.
field negro said...
Bill, I bet whatever instrument you play only allows you to play one song: Dems bad, repubs good.
I've played at 2 Bill Clinton events here in lala land.
0 bush events.
Bill, are you really this dense?
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Is that a rhetorical question or do you really want us to answer that?
Bill, I bet whatever instrument you play only allows you to play one song
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Bill plays the kazoo and wanders in his bathrobe. It's kinda cute and sad at the same time.
I'm a worthless piece of shit! :)
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