Sunday, January 31, 2010

Reggie, Gaga, and the Grammys.

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Mrs. Field is trying to get me to watch the Grammy Awards Show. I am not biting. I am trying to blog, instead. Notice I said trying. She has the television going full blast in the other room. I am guessing she is going to make me listen to it or watch it whether I like it or not. "That Lady Gaga sure can sing". Yeah, whatever. I am still not biting.
So anyway, while perusing the blogosphere I came across an interesting read over at the excellent Maynard Institute blog. Some of you have probably heard about it by now, but I would really love to hear the sister's take on it.

Mrs. Field usually gets Essence Magazine, and I admit that I usually "sneak a peak" from time to time, but I must have missed the Reggie Bush issue:

"A high-profile black athlete with a white girlfriend?" Jenice Armstrong began Wednesday in her Philadelphia Daily News column.
"No big thing.

'Well, not unless the athlete happens to be on the cover of Essence magazine and that particular issue is supposed to be all about 'black men, love and relationships.'

'Then, what you have is a potentially sticky situation especially since the cover model is none other than New Orleans Saints player Reggie Bush, who is romantically involved with Kim Kardashian. Besides her reality-TV show 'Keeping Up with the Kardashians,' Kardashian's biggest claim to fame is a pornographic sex tape she made with former boyfriend Ray J, brother of singer Brandy.

'. . . The image of Bush has irritated a long-frayed nerve that is further aggravated by the fact that Essence, a magazine many black women think of as their own, made him its cover image. It's stirred up an old debate about high-profile black men and their preference for dating white or light-skinned women.

'. . . on Essence.com, a lively debate is waging with more than 1,300 comments posted on this issue.' (The comments page has apparently been deleted.)

'"Essence declines comment,' spokeswoman Dana Baxter told Journal-isms. " [Story here]

Ms. Baxter, I don't blame you. I wouldn't touch that one with a twelve foot pole.

Before I go, can someone tell me why Taylor what's her name keeps winning awards? I think the Kanye payback is complete. (BTW, he was right) Enough already!


*Pic from the Maynard Institute blog.

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Anonymous said...

rip "Field,
This is why your blog has so many record breaking views. So take that middle finger you flipped up, stick it in butter, and sit on it. Cause bro, it ain't anything you are writing about. It's a few key regulars and a handful of anons. Not sure I would be braggin; man."

Well, rip not everybody can be as erudite as you have just shown. I would say you are a level or two BELOW the IQ of the comments made here. So how would your butter finger licking ass know what Field has posted? Obviously you have not read it cuz you have not replied to it, you moronic imbecile. So instead of judging Field and other posters, take a look at what you just wrote...my dog could comment better than you just by imprinting his paw here.

@Field, I apologize for my rudeness. I hate ungrateful fools(I believe Chris Rock called them 'niggers'), who are always looking to find fault with everything. Rip is one of those jackasses who needs to marginalize and tear down others in order to feel better about himself.

Anyway, Field-CONGRATULATIONS on hitting the 2 million mark!!! You DESERVE IT. You have been of great service to the Black Blogosphere and to the Black Community. Furthermore, You have been here EVERYDAY for folks like me.

I most grateful to you. Thank you!

alicia banks said...

hey assnon:

you mornoic queries inspired my post today

thanks for the inspiration idiot!!!!

http://aliciabanks.vox.com/library/post/on-jill-nelsons-regal-rage-revolutionary-anger-1.html

Anonymous said...

"But then you wouldn't have time to drink all of that coffee that you are addicted to at Starbucks."

You know, you have a point. I see them sitting in front of Starbucks all of the time.

Anonymous said...

And I see black folks eating chicken all the time.
And wearing saggy pants...stereotypes are born out of these statements.

AB isn't anger like that dangerous for the soul? Doesn't it take up so much energy?

Anonymous said...

AB, "hey assnon:

you mornoic queries inspired my post today

thanks for the inspiration idiot!!!!"

Well, I am glad to be of service to you. I will check your blog to see if you have any inspiration whatsoever.

Btw, you did not reply to my comments to you this evening.

What's the matter, were my comments too much for ya?

Did you notice what I wrote to you about my IQ being higher than yours? Did it make you feel nervous and uneasy?

Please don't cry. Have a drink and let your wife hold you...you'll get over it.

focusedpurpose said...

Maria-

i am not going to argue with you. we agree to disagree. quite a few men (all colors) treat women (all colors) like crap. i am not saying i know better than ww...blah...blah...

i AM saying that wm (american ones particularly) go out of their way not to hurt ww's feelings. this is why ww are depicted as the epitome of beauty and femininity. yet the entitled crappy behavior exhibited by ww (as a direct result of that white supremacy lunacy) gets characterized as the behavior of "women". lol!

now, when wm start singing songs about entitled ww behavior that results in wm mail ordering brides...then we can talk.

for the record i would not want to see that behavior. i think it is disgusting without regard for the color of the skin of the women on the receiving end of it. what is interesting to me are my pale sisters that want to play the "you are demeaning bm" nutrole when the sisters rich in melanin start calling out bm's flagrant foul behavior toward bw. stop it already Maria. i don't have the patience. thanks.

Anon @ 8:52 PM-

reading is fundamental. go back and read my first comment on this thread. i tried to make it plain...i will not engage ladyboys. they make me tired. disrespectful males get dismissed. THAT is why i am not responding to the drivel from one clueless commenter. hopefully i will fall out of his mentals momentarily so i won't have to see myself mentioned in so many of his comments. lol!

Anon, IF you read and comprehend what i write, you would not mischaracterize my statements by saying that i have said bw are inherently good and the other statements i never made.

i would like to see bw take the tireless efforts that they have given to others and apply it to ourselves. i would like to see bw build families with whomever they choose. i would like bw to see they have options and exercise them. in some instance that will be with bm and in others not so much. i would like to see bw have babies and families with those men that understand and demonstrate in deed that their presence is needed, with men that understand that their women and babies need them. i would like to see bw be self actualized and in pursuit of their calling/purpose. i would like to see bw experience a better quality of life. i would like to see bw stand up and say no more to exploitation, mistreatment and abuse by withdrawing support from ALL that seek to heap it on us. i would like to see bw happy healthy and whole. and most importantly, i would like to see bw stop with the "strong" mess and embrace womanhood; this can be done when they are partnered with strong men that act as men---PROVIDERS AND PROTECTORS.

if what i would like to see means i have to deal with folks lying on me and trying not to understand what i write in english, sobeit.

i don't understand why you would think i would want bw with gays (???) unless she is gay. you really seem confused, though what i am saying is simple.

Anon, do you really not know that bm constitute the greatest threat to bw and bchildren? i know it should be ok because _________. insert whatever drivel the clueless commenter wrote before.

it is not ok to me. IF our image is to be improved, BW will need to improve it. IF we are to not be disproportionately the victims of violence and rape, WE will need to change these conditions. at the very least STOP.SUFFERING.SILENTLY.THROUGH.IT, and making excuses for the perpetrators.

i don't have any apologies i want to make for my position. it is REALLY not that hard to understand. by the same token, i, would like to see bm get it together as well. that's menfolk work though and i leave it to the men to get it done.

why do bm get so angry when bw refuse to put bm first? or speak from a male identified place? what's up with that? (rhetorical. i don't really have any questions.)

-fp

Anonymous said...

PS AB, like so much bw you sure is ugly.

alicia banks said...

assnon:

thanks for the compliments!!!

i am blessed and beautiful indeed

grin

alicia banks said...

f:

i am elated that you are not and never have been in my tribe on any shores!!!


i love the usa
my slave kin's blood is deep within its soil...they built it for free!

fyi:

you can always return to your original african home!...

Anonymous said...

Fp "i tried to make it plain...i will not engage ladyboys."

What are ladyboys? do you have any other classifications of bm? If so, please help me out here so that I can discern what kind of bm you are talking about.

While you are at it, list the classifications of women you detest.

alicia banks said...

assnonL

only ugly invisible people bash beautiful visible people like me...

thanks!
huge grin

Race Traitoress said...

Anon 7:34

I am a white woman and I get asked out by black guys all the time, from the time I was in school and I am engaged to a black guy now. His mother even likes me now, but not at first, she got to know ME for the person I am. Why is white women at fault for being loved by black men and white men? The fault lies with black women, one black man didn't say so, MOST of them do. All of these men can not be wrong!!! just look at something, white women, asian women, indian women, latin women all have similar traits, which is lighter feminine skin and even down to long strait hair which defines femininity. These feminine traits have been down in the books since the begining of time, even by egyptians. its only black women who look so differently from other women, something is going on there, I don't know why that is. Men date who attracts them, Most black women are not beautiful to black guys, its a fact. I'm not saying I think black women are ugly, but its what guys want in a woman. Why most black guys have to be stuck with dating black women if they don't find them attractive or if they have poor attitudes? i don't mean to offend anyone but Im sick of black women barfing about things they can't control. its not the white woman's fault you were born looking the way you do, not saying its bad. Just leave us ALONE.

Now, why'd you have to go and be such a BITCH?

And, btw, his mother doesn't like you, she tolerates you, for her son's sake. She got to know you for the person you are, all right. She knows you're nice to her face and then spew this kind of poison about Black women behind her back.

You couldn't be more of a stereotypical narcissistic, arrogant, dimwitted, self-righteous, mean-spirited, conceited, superficial "white" woman if you tried.

Wait a minute. . .

Anonymous said...

Fp "Anon, do you really not know that bm constitute the greatest threat to bw and bchildren?"

No I do not. And I have not seen it either. But that is not to say that it doesn't exist. So maybe we are living in different worlds?

However, to lump all bm into that category when some of us have no idea what you are talking about and then criticize us is bullshit.

I take care of my family and my wife is an equal and my child has his phd and is doing well. So, maybe YOU don't know everything. Your generalized comments about bm, bw, wm and ww indicate there is quite a bit that you DON'T know but no one can tell you much.

It's one thing to ignorant of things due to not having the opportunity to experience something different, but it's another thing to be so thick headed and opinionated that you are unable to learn.

@Fp "i don't have any apologies i want to make for my position. it is REALLY not that hard to understand. by the same token, i, would like to see bm get it together as well. that's menfolk work though and i leave it to the men to get it done."

No, it is not working separately, it is working together to make things better. But I can see why you feel that your conceptualize theory based on your experience is not hard to understand because you have a model in your mind how things should be...bw separate from bm; and collectively all bm being the kind of men that YOU think they should be. I like who I am and I care for my family and my wife and children will tell you so.

I have no intentions of turning myself inside out to suit your narcissistic needs, which is to make things better for YOU.

I am not sure what part of the black experience you are in, but it sounds distorted to me.

But good luck, anyway.

Anonymous said...

RT-"You couldn't be more of a stereotypical narcissistic, arrogant, dimwitted, self-righteous, mean-spirited, conceited, superficial "white" woman if you tried."

Yeah. We all know how bright and 'nice' you are. But that's what self-righteous judgment will do. It'll make you look like the very person you are criticizing.

Way to go, RT...you've got class.

Herray said...

@Race Traitoress said...
Anon 7:34


Thanks for your response to Anon 7:34.

Anonymous said...

AB, I am still waiting for your reply to my comment at 10:06p.

BTw, I read your post on your blog. It was pretty good for an amateur who can't write.

No, seriously, it was good and you have every right to be angry. You just have to go to school to learn how to express it appropriately. Join Rev Wright's Church. That should help you to simmer down. LOL

Was I the Anon that you were referring to as a 'weak man' in your opening paragraph? Can we have lunch together and discuss this over a couple of beers like civilized human beings like Obama and Gates did at the White House?

I'll be Obama and you can be Gates, or Crowley if you want.

Love,
a weak man.

Anonymous said...

RT "Now, why'd you have to go and be such a BITCH?

"And, btw, his mother doesn't like you, she tolerates you, for her son's sake."

How the hell do you know? Who are you, God?

alicia banks said...

assnon:

i love your squeal even more than your envy

ha!

i feel your pain

thanks!!!

you made my day you weak cowardly hater!

Race Traitoress said...

Anon 11:41

How the hell do you know? Who are you, God?

Clearly, from your post, you have no respect for Black women and take great pains to denigrate their beauty. You back up your disdain for BW by claiming that "most" Black men say it's the fault of BW that BM date WW. This is "the person you [are]" that your soon-to-be mother-in-law has gotten to know.

So if she knows the real you, then it seems to me there are two possibilities:

1. She's faking it for her son's sake, or

2. She likes you in spite of the fact that you hold Black women in very low regard.

Which one makes more sense? I don't need to be God to figure that one out. Or do you really just think you've got her fooled?

Race Traitoress said...

Anon 11:23

Yeah. We all know how bright and 'nice' you are. But that's what self-righteous judgment will do. It'll make you look like the very person you are criticizing.

You've always got that "we all know" and "everybody here" thing going on to bolster yourself when you respond to me.

Why don't you just speak for your anonymous yourself? Own your criticism. Even better, choose a name and use it so you don't get buried in the pile of anonymous posters here.

I don't speak for anyone but myself, and I don't need to gang up on anybody with my pretend posse when I disagree with them.

Race Traitoress said...

@Herray

You're welcome, and thanks for the kindness.

Anonymous said...

AB, "i love your squeal even more than your envy

ha!

i feel your pain

thanks!!!

you made my day you weak cowardly hater!"

Whose hating who? I was trying to show some love. It's you who is hating. You are a racist without any credentials in the educational field. And don't give that bs about your certificates and degrees. You bought them all at Wal Mart for $1.95.

"Hating" on honest innocent hets like me is your favorite lesbian pasttime. You have been living on the Southside too long without attending church. Move to the West side. you'll feel better.

When are you going to host another radio show? Let me answer that for you: NEVER! They don't like screaming maniacs on their show.

Anonymous said...

RT "Clearly, from your post, you have no respect for Black women and take great pains to denigrate their beauty."

You lie! Beauty is beauty, regardless of color. Of course, you wouldn't know about that. You are too busy being a racist and a hater.

What's it like to be living in the wet woods of Washington State? Pretty miserable, huh?

Anonymous said...

Anon@8:52pm...

This was SO GOOD, I felt the need to repost it. Hope you don't mind. LMAO2!!

-----------------------

UTS, I found it interesting that Fp had no reply to your comment to her in a previous thread, which pretty much summed up what she is all about:

fp

"uts, at no time have i indicated that bw are without fault, have no responsibility, etc. we have a LOT of responsibility. i have said plainly, in english, that IF bw are to be saved, WE must SAVE OURSELVES!"

UTS-"Save yourselves from WHOM?

BLACK MEN????????

Your fathers, grandfathers, husbands, brothers and lovers?

They've all tried to harm you?

You're still positioning bw as exclusively innocents being victimized by the men they live with and among.

I'm all the way with you if you are calling out brothers who have abdicated their roles as responsible men and societal contributors.

But you seem to think that most black men are inherently evil.

And, AMAZINGLY, that black women are inherently good and heroic.

That is a hateful, unrealistic and stereotypical mindset.

WHAT DO YOU WANT FP?

Would you like to see black men and women come together as a community and build families and unity?

Or have you totally given up and encourage bw to seek wm and gays?

You do realize that we're the only people who talk like this even though the same issues exist among men and women of every other race.

Why do you think so many white American men are pursuing mail order brides from Russia and Asia?

You my dear are in desperate need of some humility.

If you stop the superior posturing and speak from the heart you'll be surprised at the honesty and vulnerability many brothers will reveal."

I loved the way you ended your comment. What bm or any man would want a hardened angry woman like that? I say, "go with Blessings All who follow her, and start your own colony."

alicia banks said...

jealousassnon:

i am soooooooo sorry that god did not make you me or bless you with any of my careers or superb gifts....

you get greenER with envy and MORE moronic with each post...fix that FOOL!!!

get YOUR life you loon!!!

http://aliciabanks.vox.com/profile/

Anonymous said...

FP part one-
"i would like to see bw take the tireless efforts that they have given to others and apply it to ourselves. i would like to see bw build families with whomever they choose. i would like bw to see they have options and exercise them. in some instance that will be with bm and in others not so much. i would like to see bw have babies and families with those men that understand and demonstrate in deed that their presence is needed, with men that understand that their women and babies need them. i would like to see bw be self actualized and in pursuit of their calling/purpose. i would like to see bw experience a better quality of life. i would like to see bw stand up and say no more to exploitation, mistreatment and abuse by withdrawing support from ALL that seek to heap it on us. i would like to see bw happy healthy and whole. and most importantly, i would like to see bw stop with the "strong" mess and embrace womanhood; this can be done when they are partnered with strong men that act as men---PROVIDERS AND PROTECTORS. "

BLAH...BLAH, BLAH...BLAH, BLAH!! Boy, you sure do like to hear yourself stroke those keys. If only you'd shut your trap up long enough to open your eyes, you'd probably be able to see that many of us BW are ALREADY where you say you'd like to see us. Just because you can't (refuse to) see our progress doesn't mean it ain't happening. Stop trying to speak for/be every Black woman's experience. I, for one, neither need nor want you to, as I am similarly focused with my own sense of purpose. The only person you can honestly represent in here is YOU. Maybe you could swoop down off that golden pedestal long enough to remember that...?

FP part two-
...why do bm get so angry when bw refuse to put bm first? or speak from a male identified place? what's up with that? (rhetorical. i don't really have any questions.)

Lordy, lordy- a writer with no questions. LMAO!! PRICELESS!! No questions? Yep, everybody, it may be that FP thinks she has the correct answers to the questions too darn 'rhetorical' to ask, so step right on up and drink up all the ink that drips from her mighty pen. (She saves the sword for those whose opinions differ from her righteous own!! SHAME.)

Learn to LEARN from people, girl. It'll make you a much MUCH better BW.

uptownsteve said...

LA Coincidental

OK, now that this has turned into a men vs. women message board, let me add my 0.02 about educated Black females that drive me batty:


- Clinger: Every man wants a loyal woman -- he's seeking a team mate and a partner,but not a second layer of skin. The Clinger is the chick that calls you every day, even at work. She wants to be around 24/7 and won't give you space to hang with your boys or talk to your own momma. She nags you for working late, eventhough she knows you need the OT to break even. These chick grab onto a brother and will do anything to keep this dude. Unfornately, the overbearing nature of the Clinger drives most black men away. Cling to a brother like a boa constrictor or a vice grip, he'll do anything to flee.

- The Bitch: Yes a straight mean spirited, nasty obnoxious person. Demanding and demeaning to the point of being abusive. Before some sista say if she were a man, she'd be assertive. No, if she were a man, she'd be an a**h** and possibly a wife beater. Women don't deserve to abused, and neither do men.

- The Pass Life Regression(PLR): You are not compared to as an individual, you're her father/baby daddy/uncaring professor/crazy uncle Larry who 'touched her' in the 3rd grade. Everyone has issues, but the PLR relives all of her past issues and the anxiety to come along with it -- through you. Remember the Simpson episode where Flanders cuts his new chick's hair to look like his dead wife's? Its even nuttier than that.

- The Vassar Egomaniac: A diva with a Bachelors degree. Educated Black women don't turn working dudes off. Educated Black women with massive, out of control egos turn working dudes off. Example, I have friends who can't keep a man because they throw their college degree and earnings in every dude's face. Conversely, my cousin is an executive at a non-profit and a published author. Her partner is a construction worker. He's not threaten by the fact that she written a book or speaks 3 languages. And conversely, she doesn't remind everyday that she has written a book and speaks 3 languages. She respects him as a man. If you ever wonder why so many educated 'successful' Black women are single, here's a simply answer -- because many think a Masters and a 6 figure salary some how makes them better than a mechanic with a GED. Like uts would say, get over yourself.

- The Assata Wannabe: A straight up mau-mau loon who looks for conspiracies everywhere. They snub their noses at most Black people for not thinking like them. They look for racism everywhere, even when there is no 'there' there. And typically, these sistas fashion themselves as straight feminists -- and I mean the kind that would make Gloria Steinem look like a raving conservative. They think they're in the fields with the rest of us, but they're off the plantation barking at the moon. They make their man's life miserable (or their woman's life, if they're gay) simply because they nitpick everything detail of life for some pro-Black POV. Trying dating a woman who calls you a sellout for thinking 'LA Confidential' is good movie."

OUTSTANDING!!!!!!!!!!!!

The Manifesto

I noticed that none of the proto-femmes responded to you because they CAN'T.

The truth is undeniable.

alicia banks said...

uts and assnons

you are such sexist hypocrites!!!

if any women posted 1/10th of such hateful stereotypical racist drivel psychobabble bubble gum bs... you all would have strokes!

shame!!!

spare us the silly pseudo macho madness!

alicia banks said...

ditto!
see?

http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=men+to+avoid&btnG=Search&aq=f&aqi=&oq=

maria said...

i had a lot more respect for you LAco, before you decided that post was a good thing. steve, you were already a lost cause...mostly.

uptownsteve said...

maria,

How was he wrong specifically?

Every black professional man can attest to the profiles LaC presented.

Is it just that you don't want to HEAR about it?

That only demonizing and stereotyping of black men by angry black females is acceptable to y'all?

That much is iobvious.

La♥audiobooks said...

FP and AB, you two must be weary from holding down the crazy-fort. Yes FP, where are all those black men and dutiful black women to speak on behalf of their wonderful and beautiful black mothers etc. and etc.?

If I have to be ugly-angry-bitter-fat-evil-manless shark, or lesbian in order to spread the 'word' so that other black females can hear it, then so be it. LOL.

RT, I pity the child and her rude awakenings to come. I was more shocked that she was old enough to date. I don't think the following anonys were the same person either. Warning: No offense, but the hatred for black women run so deep among some black males on this site, that even a white female who dare to show BW advocacy will also risk the abuse.

maria said...

why attack women? i don't see women on the blog just going, "hey, here's the kind of man i really hate."

but it seems open season...so maybe some will.

and you know, we all have our faults--men, women, black, white. and few fit into neat little categories. certainly not four. how about a few nice categories?

and calling a woman bitch is just so lame.

uptownsteve said...

La*Incognita

Please explain to me how you conclude that we black males hate black females but you, fp and ab are just telling the truth?

Notice that LaCon specified specific types of bw whereas FP boldly stated that most bm are irresponsible brutes.

Secondly, please produce one statement from that would suggest "hatred for black women".

I'll wait patiently.

uptownsteve said...

maria

"why attack women? i don't see women on the blog just going, "hey, here's the kind of man i really hate."

FP and La*Incognita hate all black men except gays.

The double standard here is mind-boggling.

You females feel totally justfied slamming and excortiating brothers and when we stand up to you, you accuse US of hating women!

INCREDIBLE!

maria said...

what LaCo did was just an unprovoked full-frontal.

and i hope the BW on this site do not respond in kind.

remember what this thread started as. aren't you two just perpetuating the abuse?

i was looking again at that cover and was POed by another headline: how to go from "broke to blessed."

as if...that's all there is. all BW are broke?

as if..."blessed" is a goal? blessed means some outside force is making your life good. because you can't.

it's offensive and i wonder how much worse the article was than the headline.

uptownsteve said...

You never get a straight answer from these females.

HOW WAS LACO's post a "full-frontal" but FP's rants are not???

Please answer.

maria said...

well, for one thing, i don't think she used any profanity to describe men or lumped them all together like this, and she also said women need to spend more time working on themselves. his descriptions seem needlessly cruel and insulting, and, well, needless.

i confess i don't read FP's posts too closely. i'll grant you that he writes better, too.

alicia banks said...

ditto to all regarding how the bf bashing has gone wild herein!!!!


shame!!!!!!!!!

to all of you racist sexist euro fools who hate black women....BAM!!!:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/01/30/caressa-cameron-miss-virg_n_443350.html

uptownsteve said...

We won't get any honesty on this issue.

It's always going to be a spin, evasion or deflection.

maria said...

that's funny, steve. you asked a question and i answered you straight.

alicia banks said...

lac:

bet!

the misogyny and immaturity here are truly insane...like battling a demented boys club...so "crazy fort" is a perfect description!

uptownsteve said...

maria

No you didn't.

You claim not have read FPs posts which is a classic internet evasion.

She's been all over this board for the past week ranting like a fusion of Andrea Dworkin/Alice Walker/and Bell Hooks all rolled up in a ball of frothy-mouthed rage.

And why is she and La*Incognita so concerned about recruiting other bw's????

If you hate black men then go on about your business and chase white guys (good luck with that, munch carpet or go celibate.

Why the need for a movement?

Some black women are very happy and content in their relationships with their men.

For those who have never been able to achieve successful relationships, the problem is in the mirror.

maria said...

You claim not have read FPs posts which is a classic internet evasion.

She's been all over this board for the past week ranting like a fusion of Andrea Dworkin/Alice Walker/and Bell Hooks all rolled up in a ball of frothy-mouthed rage.

And why is she and La*Incognita so concerned about recruiting other bw's????

If you hate black men then go on about your business and chase white guys (good luck with that, munch carpet or go celibate.

i'm sorry--are you talking to me? i don't hate black men. i don't seem them recruiting, either.

i think you're way too defensive. i am not going to defend what i said any further...his attack was vicious and unwarranted and far above the level of anything i've ever seen a BW write here. but you can't write that kind of garbage like it's just the two of you sitting in a strip club. there are women here, and we don't like it.

Anonymous said...

ABtoF-, "i am soooooooo sorry that god did not make you me or bless you with any of my careers or superb gifts...."

I am blessed that he didn't make me like you, he made me better!

Btw, I don't think God made you. Some 'fallen angel' did that. LOL

Is that why you are sooo jealous of me and want to be like me? You still haven't acknowledged my that my IQ and success makes any success you have tiny in comparison.

LACoincidental said...

Funny, I've been on this blog for a few years and typically fall to the left on most issues. I place one honest assessment of experience dating among Black professional men and I'm a male chauvinist pig.

Did I say all Black women were like this? Heck No!!! But the sane decent sistas, like the straight laced brothers tend to keep to themselves because they've met met enough crazies in the dating scene. Ironically, my girl and I were both about give up on Negroes and look to other options because of the drama we've been through. Fine how life works.

Just as most bf get sick of the thugs, the money grubbers, the playas, the perpetual man-child and pretty boys -- most good, hard-working black men don't care the mind games and nonsense that come from my list of prototypical (and admittedly stereotypical) "crazy Black women". Its written from a male POV. I'm being honest, that's all.

Hell if a serial married man like Steve Harvey can write a book, I can at least say that this the carnival of crazy that I've met in my life.

Anonymous said...

AB "ditto to all regarding how the bf bashing has gone wild herein!!!!"

It's funny how you remained silent while Fp bashed and belittled bm. You claim to be fair and honest, but you are not. You are a hater of bm like Fp and Li.

Seriously, AB-I thought you were better, smarter, and had more self-esteem than to follow an idiotic black male basher like Fp. Looks like you have accepted her as your spokeswoman. How tragic!

I see you DON'T think for yourself when it comes to putting up walls between bm and bw.

SHAME!!!!

uptownsteve said...

LaCoincidental

No need to apologize. You were dead on target.

I for one am totally sick of the double standard.

These angry proto-femmes talk about men, particularly black men, as if we're barely domesticated animals and feel totally justified doing it.

But you or I relate a real life experience we've had WITH SPECIFIC INDIVIDUAL WOMEN and listen to the bleating about "misogyny" and "hating of women".

Like you said, thank God there are some sane sistas out here out see through this madness.

I showed my wife one of FP's posts and she shook her head and said "that girl's got issues".

We can only pray for them.


Don't dish out what you can't take.

Anonymous said...

LACoincidental-"I place one honest assessment of experience dating among Black professional men and I'm a male chauvinist pig."

I related to your honest experience and it's true. But haven't you learned that there is NO sharing of information that you can give where you won't be put down? You see, you aren't dealing with normal bw, they are emotionally sick and cannot be talked to rationally. Check it out...it's the same ole angry unhappy blaming gang who cannot see the forest for the trees.

With bw like them-and thank God there aren't many of them- you are wasting your time trying to communicate with them. They aren't interested in considering your side of the conversation, they are only interested in "bashing bm", period.

They are not reasonable bw; they are emotionally sick little girls in women's bodies- looking for the daddy they never had. You can see and hear the mantra, "daddy, daddy, where are you?". It's very glaring in Fp's and Li's comments.

alicia banks said...

assnon:

are you unable to defend yourself against fp without wasting time calling upon me????

fix that...post TO HER!!!

fyi:

you are not my first private stalker herein

but you are the first who was both completely blind and severely retarded...

you are truly reaching and causing retching simultaneously!!!

why?????

alicia banks said...

assnon:

i never allow morons like you to bait me...especially against a regal warrior queen like fp

do not hate on me because she exposes you to be the blackish court jester you are

take that up with her majesty fp in her own royal ct herein!!!

alicia banks said...

assnon:

i adore many black men...
maybe if you knew any black men you could relate?

i know no lesbian who hates men...
why would any????

i do know COUNTLESS hets who hate men though!!!

In a classic essay entitled, “I Am Your Sister: Black Women Organizing Across Sexualities” [Burst of Light. 1988. Firebrand Books: Ithaca, NY], renowned scholar, poet, and author Audre Lorde wrote:

“When I say I am a Black Lesbian, I mean I am a woman whose primary focus of loving, physical as well as emotional, is directed to women. It does not mean I hate men. Far from it. The harshest attacks I have ever heard against Black men come from those women who are emotionally bound to them and cannot free themselves from a subservient and silent position. I would never presume to speak about Black men the way I have heard some of my straight sisters talk about the men they are attracted to. And of course that concerns me, because it reflects a situation of noncommunication in the heterosexual community that is far more truly threatening than the existence of Black Lesbians.”

http://aliciabanks.vox.com/library/post/fatal-transactions-on-cherica-adams-rae-caruth.html

alicia banks said...

ellis cose is just one of many men i adore...fyi


I always find it amusingly comical when foolish gaybashers assume that I hate men because I am a lesbian who is brave enough to tell or pen uncensored truths about men. They have no idea how much I love and admire many men in my family. They are ignorant about the droves of dear and intimate male mentors and friends, heterosexual and homosexual, black and white, who make me laugh and feel alive. They know nothing about the brothers I adore like: Charles Green, Duane Cramer, Mark Starr, Labi Siffre, Bryan Cambrice, Steven Ivory, Dr. Michael Eric Dyson, Rawjah, Rippa, Jamaa Fanaka, Ras Abudah, Phillipe, Fyah Wyah, Dr. Asa Hilliard, Dr. Mutulu Shakur, Tim Anthony, Willie Davis, Rod McCullom and countless others who share/shared my life…

These are the men who are kindred spirits and dear friends. The men who inspire me, believe in me, and encourage me. They comfort, console, and cheer me when sistas break my heart. These great men network for me, temper me, and ground me.

All of the men that I love collectively hold up half the sky....they ease my burdens in a world that hates and wounds. It often seems as if the sky is falling down upon me and my sistas. The collective spirits of all the men I love heal my own spirit, when it is bruised and nearly broken by the incessant and increasingly hard and low blows of racism, sexism, and homohatred.

http://aliciabanks.vox.com/library/post/on-ellis-coses-the-envy-of-the-world-on-being-a-black-man-in-america.html

PS: i do despise you..but...since you are not a man that does not count!!!!!!!!!!

focusedpurpose said...

La-

actually sis, i step away and handle biz.

AB-

LOL! @ your response to ladyboy anon.

i don't feed the animals when i visit the zoo. there are males that post here that have not been trained well by the menfolk in their families as to how to behave when in the company of women. the zoo-like energy they bring to the convo is laughable at best.

someone asked what a ladyboy is...

a ladyboy is a male that has the sensibilities of a lady. he usually demonstrates that he has the emotional maturity of a boy as well. (demonstrated by profane name-calling, taunts, and outright lies) ladyboys require great protection (usually from the truth, responsibility and accountability) and extreme provision. (usually in the form of lies and excuses for their inexcusable behavior) as i said, ladyboys make me tired.

to be fair, ladyboys are usually the by-product of males being reared and socialized solely by females.

to the anon that wants to give me little assignments, make demands, and swap insults--i am not interested to engage in that counter-productive behavior. knock yourself out though.

Maria you said:
"that's funny, steve. you asked a question and i answered you straight."

i don't bother to answer him for that very reason. i have seen him, too many times, STILL play the nutrole AFTER folks "prove it", post links, statistical references, etc. and frankly, despite what folks tell the dumb folks to help them feel better, there IS such a thing as a dumb question.

to the rest of the anons and fp insulters i lol! long ago i decided what other folks think about me (ESPECIALLY when they don't know me) is NOT my business. insult away! it says more about YOU than it does about me. lol!

-fp

Anonymous said...

AB, "“When I say I am a Black Lesbian, I mean I am a woman whose primary focus of loving, physical as well as emotional, is directed to women. It does not mean I hate men. Far from it. The harshest attacks I have ever heard against Black men come from those women who are emotionally bound to them and cannot free themselves from a subservient and silent position. I would never presume to speak about Black men the way I have heard some of my straight sisters talk about the men they are attracted to. And of course that concerns me, because it reflects a situation of noncommunication in the heterosexual community that is far more truly threatening than the existence of Black Lesbians.”

Thank you for this quote and the reference to her book. I must read it. I see you try to read books that go beyond your comprehension. That is very good. Btw, I have NEVER bashed lesbians/gays. So your accusation of me is false...YOU LIE, but I forgive you.

@AB "All of the men that I love collectively hold up half the sky....they ease my burdens in a world that hates and wounds. It often seems as if the sky is falling down upon me and my sistas. The collective spirits of all the men I love heal my own spirit, when it is bruised and nearly broken by the incessant and increasingly hard and low blows of racism, sexism, and homohatred."

Beautifully said. You have a wild and crazy mind, but you have a great heart. It's good to know that you don't engage in male bashing-you just hate me.LOL

Btw, I have NEVER engaged in lesbian/gay bashing, so you LIE. I won't hold that against you.
Thanks again for the book reference.

Peace.

Anonymous said...

LaCoincidental, thanks for writing this:

"- Clinger: Every man wants a loyal woman -- he's seeking a team mate and a partner,but not a second layer of skin. The Clinger is the chick that calls you every day, even at work. She wants to be around 24/7 and won't give you space to hang with your boys or talk to your own momma. She nags you for working late, eventhough she knows you need the OT to break even. These chick grab onto a brother and will do anything to keep this dude. Unfornately, the overbearing nature of the Clinger drives most black men away. Cling to a brother like a boa constrictor or a vice grip, he'll do anything to flee.

- The Bitch: Yes a straight mean spirited, nasty obnoxious person. Demanding and demeaning to the point of being abusive. Before some sista say if she were a man, she'd be assertive. No, if she were a man, she'd be an a**h** and possibly a wife beater. Women don't deserve to abused, and neither do men.

- The Pass Life Regression(PLR): You are not compared to as an individual, you're her father/baby daddy/uncaring professor/crazy uncle Larry who 'touched her' in the 3rd grade. Everyone has issues, but the PLR relives all of her past issues and the anxiety to come along with it -- through you. Remember the Simpson episode where Flanders cuts his new chick's hair to look like his dead wife's? Its even nuttier than that.

- The Vassar Egomaniac: A diva with a Bachelors degree. Educated Black women don't turn working dudes off. Educated Black women with massive, out of control egos turn working dudes off. Example, I have friends who can't keep a man because they throw their college degree and earnings in every dude's face. Conversely, my cousin is an executive at a non-profit and a published author. Her partner is a construction worker. He's not threaten by the fact that she written a book or speaks 3 languages. And conversely, she doesn't remind everyday that she has written a book and speaks 3 languages. She respects him as a man. If you ever wonder why so many educated 'successful' Black women are single, here's a simply answer -- because many think a Masters and a 6 figure salary some how makes them better than a mechanic with a GED. Like uts would say, get over yourself.

- The Assata Wannabe: A straight up mau-mau loon who looks for conspiracies everywhere. They snub their noses at most Black people for not thinking like them. They look for racism everywhere, even when there is no 'there' there. And typically, these sistas fashion themselves as straight feminists -- and I mean the kind that would make Gloria Steinem look like a raving conservative. They think they're in the fields with the rest of us, but they're off the plantation barking at the moon. They make their man's life miserable (or their woman's life, if they're gay) simply because they nitpick everything detail of life for some pro-Black POV. Trying dating a woman who calls you a sellout for thinking 'LA Confidential' is good movie."

As a bw, I found your comment very helpful and I know you had good intentions. Unfortunately some women are so insecure that they take anything constructive and helpful as negative. I won't name anybody, but you know who they are. It's too bad these bm haters are on FN, I get so sick of the bm bashing. It accomplishes nothing except to divide us and weaken the black community even more.

I really hope Field will embrace your wise comment by posting it in his sidebar. It is insightful and deserves recognition. How about it, Field?

maria said...

you're joking, right?

this is horrible stuff. you've got to be a man. if FN embraces this crap he won't have any female readers. sterotyping and attacking, oh, so helpful.

Anonymous said...

LACoindental, " I place one honest assessment of experience dating among Black professional men and I'm a male chauvinist pig."

Just proves that you can't be honest with some women. At the same time, some claim to love the truth. Go figure.

LACoincidental said...

Wow, Maria, I thought we were friends.

Look, the conversation went from "Essence should be ashamed of putting this self-hating muscle-bound coon on the cover" to "why all Black men are no better than Reggie Bush and love white women".

OK, so I put down women I known, have dated etc. These aren't just wild ideas out of my head -- those 'stereotypes' are hyperbole based upon real women I've met and loved in my life.

Hell, Essence creates "dating archetypes" all the time on Black (the playa, the hustler, the thug, the bohemian, the church boy, etc.) How many blogs are dedicated to how trifling Black men are (been to Black Planet lately?). Substantively, ladies, what did I say that was so crazy?

If this ain't you, fine. Leave it be. But please don't act as if there aren't some of our girlfriends or cousins who don't pull crazy stunts on men.

Guys don't like clingy women, man haters, know-it-alls, so-called 'ballbusters' or militants. Just a women don't want to come home to cold fish, know-it-alls, whiners, a lazy man-child or Ike Turner. This goes across racial and ethnic lines.

maria said...

you said-- Guys don't like clingy women, man haters, know-it-alls, so-called 'ballbusters' or militants. Just a women don't want to come home to cold fish, know-it-alls, whiners, a lazy man-child or Ike Turner. This goes across racial and ethnic lines.,

YES...and the point is--all that goes without saying, doesn't it? i don't want a woman hater, or an emotional midget either (note to F: i did NOT use the R word).

i mean, this isn't a dating site. you aren't personally involved with the women on the site who'd be reading this and think, OH SHIT, that's me, i'd better change my ways!

you're not here to give relationship advice, are you? what are your credentials for that? it struck me that you seemed so angry.

i've been saying this sounded more like guy talk that should be reserved for the strip club or drinks between friends.

i didn't understand WHY you felt the need to be so categorical about it. and to ascribe these bad traits as just applicable to black women. you know i'm not black, right (who doesn't know that?) but this is a slam on all women.

this is what we needed to hear?

i just found the characterizations just so petty and unnecessarily provocative.

i mean, did you really think all that flame throwing would lead to some constructive debate somehow?

i'm reading some and i'm thinking, huh, what MAKES a clinger? maybe she's insecure. who isn't?

what would the basis be for any kind of dialogue with women on your typing scheme?

Anonymous said...

LaC, you won't be able to have a sensible discourse with an insecure emotional invalid.

LACoincidental said...

Maria:
I honestly could say 'boo' and someone on this board will go ballistic. Either way, my post got everyone off topic.

Next, I'll keep my damn 'mouth' shut.

maria said...

i don't think that's true. and you know you won't keep that promise. i never have.

Anonymous said...

"Next, I'll keep my damn 'mouth' shut."

That's what they want. That way they can put bm down without a peep from them.

La♥audiobooks said...

"those 'stereotypes' are hyperbole based upon real women I've met and loved in my life."

Go figure.

Well gee, all the abuse and vileness. Maria, once you can make it though the black female treatment from these ladyboys, you can make it anyway. Especially from that one creepy stalking anony eunuch in charge.

Anonymous said...

La audio "Especially from that one creepy stalking anony eunuch in charge."

You are soooo jealous and insecure. Must be an island disease. The creep that you see is the creep in YOU 'Mr' La 'A'.

La♥audiobooks said...

"'Mr' La 'A'"

Now what's that? Some kind of non-compos-mentis code that only other deranged eunuchs can read?

I though I told you months back not to come out your mother's basement until I told you to.

focusedpurpose said...

Anon @ 11:20-

you said in part:
"No, it is not working separately, it is working together to make things better."

uh...not THAT same old game. bw have tried that for DECADES now, here in this country and in Africa. it has resulted in bw being foot soldiers and doing the heavy lifting, while quite a few bm minimized their role, contribution and efforts. history, in the united states AND on the continent of africa, bears witness to my statement. lol! time out for the okey doke folks. so...again i say, bm need to get together and get their act together. they don't need bw for that. million man march yourselves into action. the bcollective is gasping for breath. (and not just in my neck of the woods! it's in your neck of the woods, too, you just refuse to see.)

i have learned, "help a brotha out" REALLY means bw, do your job AND his, too. he will reward you with taking all the credit and benefits of your efforts. take a peak at the blk nationalist movement and argue. (i say that knowing full well some folks will. lol!)

btw, my observations are NOT necessarily my life experiences. it probably makes folks feel better to think differently. i understand, we do what we must to get by. lol!

speaking of the million man march? what have ya'll good bm been up to since then? didn't farrakhan say amends should be made for the transgressions against bw? i think he tried to make ya'll feel better about getting started recently when he said ya'll were superior to bw. come on now! seriously, what will it take for more good bm to stop playing and or sleeping?

as it relates to this post, the essence cover did not offend me. at all. i have been paying attention for awhile now. there is no bm "bashing" coming out of my mouth. i have freely acknowledged that decent bm exist. i know quite a few. anyone pretending that i am speaking of ALL bm are doing just that...pretending.

i think if bm are REALLY serious about working WITH bw, they should/must make the first move. otherwise, i will continue to suggest, based on the undeniable historical patterns, that "black love" is the concept dangled to bw in order to keep them working diligently on behalf of bm, without any type of reciprocity. it also keeps bm's harems in tact quite nicely. lol!

-fp

Anonymous said...

Fp "i think if bm are REALLY serious about working WITH bw, they should/must make the first move. otherwise, i will continue to suggest, based on the undeniable historical patterns, that "black love" is the concept dangled to bw in order to keep them working diligently on behalf of bm, without any type of reciprocity. it also keeps bm's harems in tact quite nicely. lol!"

Think what you like. Good luck with your movement.
Peace, and out.

focusedpurpose said...

Anon @ 1:12am said: "Think what you like."

i will, without asking permission.

-fp

uptownsteve said...

fp sez

"there are males that post here that have not been trained well by the menfolk in their families as to how to behave when in the company of women"

You really are nuts aren't ya?

You think that you can say whatever you want to us regardless of how silly and offensive and we should just passively accept it?

It's obvious that never had any black men in YOUR house.

uptownsteve said...

fp sez

"there are males that post here that have not been trained well by the menfolk in their families as to how to behave when in the company of women"

You really are nuts aren't ya?

You think that you can say whatever you want to us regardless of how silly and offensive and we should just passively accept it?

It's obvious that never had any black men in YOUR house.

uptownsteve said...

"They are not reasonable bw; they are emotionally sick little girls in women's bodies- looking for the daddy they never had. You can see and hear the mantra, "daddy, daddy, where are you?". It's very glaring in Fp's and Li's comments"

BINGO!!!!!

alicia banks said...

assnon:

what is "wild and crazy" is the vulgar insanity that you cowardly post to this blog...

clearly, it is the fact that any woman has any mind at all that truly vexes you...

alicia banks said...

assnon:

ps:

i am just wild about being called wild by wildly sexist dogs like you...

it is truly a wild compliment....thanks!!!



WILD WOMEN

Ida Cox


I hear these women raving 'bout their monkey men

About their trifling
husbands and their no good friends

These poor women sit around all day and moan

Wondering why their wandering papa's don't come home

But wild women don't worry, wild women don't have no blues

Now when you've got a man, don't never be on the square

'Cause if you do he'll have a woman everywhere

I never was known to treat no one man right

I keep 'em working hard both day and night

'Cause wild women don't worry, wild women don't have their blues

I've got a disposition and a way of my own

When my man starts kicking I let him find another home

I get full of good liquor, walk the streets all night

Go home and put my man out if he don't act right

Wild women don't worry, wild women don't have their blues

You never get nothing by being an angel child

You better change your ways and get real wild

I wanna tell you something, I wouldn't tell you a lie

Wild women are the only kind that really get by

'Cause wild women don't worry, wild women don't have their blues

http://www.amazon.com/Wild-Women-Dont-Have-Blues/dp/B000VAX6XW/ref=sr_1_4?ie=UTF8&qid=1265213947&sr=1-4

alicia banks said...

assnon:

here is a wildly magnifcent poem
just for your buck wild sexist pleasure...

enjoy boi:

-----

BE NOBODY'S DARLING
by
Alice Walker

Be nobody's darling;
Be an outcast.
Take the contradictions
Of your life
And wrap around
You like a shawl,
To parry stones
To keep you warm.

Watch the people succumb
To madness
With ample cheer;
Let them look askance at you
And you askance reply.

Be an outcast;
Be pleased to walk alone
(Uncool)
Or line the crowded
River beds
With other impetuous
Fools.

Make a merry gathering
On the bank
Where thousands perished
For brave hurt words
They said.

Be nobody's darling;
Be an outcast.
Qualified to live
Among your dead.

Anonymous said...

AB, thanks for the poem. i am so glad that you are not a carbon copy of empty male bashing Fp and Li/LaAudioass/kola.

you are leagues above them and seeing how kola/Li has pissed on you many times i find it puzzling that you keep going back for more.

they are girls masquerading as bw and making a mess of themselves.

alicia banks said...

anon:

i adore fp as a fellow afrocentric warrior queen!

may i suggest that you dare battle her directly?...

i think you have li and lac confused?

i will support even obama when and if he ever earns it...

uptownsteve said...

LACoincidental

"Just as most bf get sick of the thugs, the money grubbers, the playas, the perpetual man-child and pretty boys -- most good, hard-working black men don't care the mind games and nonsense that come from my list of prototypical (and admittedly stereotypical) "crazy Black women". Its written from a male POV. I'm being honest, that's all."

You acknowledged the bf screwups.

You made it clear that you weren't attacking bfs in general just stating what we all know.

BFs are not innocents in this.

Women are not total innocents.

The only way that there will be
reconciliation and unity between bm and bf is when we have total honesty and accountability.

When will we hear any of these sisters own up to anything?

focusedpurpose said...

AB, i adore you as well. i pray that someday soon i will have the patience you continue to display here.

each day i remind myself:

patience is the companion of wisdom.

blessings in abundance to you sis.

somewhere i read that if you throw a stone into a pack of dogs, the one that yelps is the one that got hit. lol!

there is a yelping dog here. the latest howl went a little something like this:

"fp sez

"there are males that post here that have not been trained well by the menfolk in their families as to how to behave when in the company of women"

You really are nuts aren't ya?

You think that you can say whatever you want to us regardless of how silly and offensive and we should just passively accept it?

It's obvious that never had any black men in YOUR house."

lol!

-fp

La♥audiobooks said...

"somewhere i read that if you throw a stone into a pack of dogs, the one that yelps is the one that got hit. lol!"

I had such a belly laugh, I'm still in tears. (I think I had inadvertently pictured the scene with adjustments) LOL

FP, I hope you continue be stay blessed. I enjoyed reading everything you said.

"kola/Li has pissed on you many times i find it puzzling that you keep going back for more. "

LOL. You are so transparent. I haven't seen a desperate divide and conquer trick bag move like that since the third grade. Your optimism amuses me. I doubt you would have tried that foolishness with another male. LOL

focusedpurpose said...

La-

lol! you crack me up as well. the stay in the basement comment tickled me for awhile. why do creepy males live in the basement? lol!

AB-

nobody's darling. love it! thanks for posting that!

you know, i been thinking about the ww that is dating a bm because he doesn't like bw. the one that denigrated the beauty/desirability of bw early on. i don't have time to pull her exact insecure, ignorant, racist, nonsense comment.

it occurred to me that she may need a public service announcement. my self-interest motivates me as well. i would not want her to not think ahead and throw any subsequent offspring in the system (you know that little thing some ww that love sexing bm do, regularly, that no one talks about) THOSE babies get labelled black and folks find another reason to talk ish about bw. or for her to cause a little girl(since girls are what she seems to hate so much while loving the boys/males) of color unnecessary suffering. so...

PSA:

consider the following when getting your swirl on:

there is a very STRONG likelihood that the children that result from your dalliance will have the same features you disdain. see, bm contribute to those features and if you looked, you would see bm.have.the.same.features.down.to.the.hair.

you may want to learn how to comb said offsprings hair as well.

further please understand that your union troubles me not. in fact, i thank you. you and others like you do bw a great service. as soon as more bw wrench their heads around and stop with their backwards thinking, they, too, will realize this.

thank you, and others like you for claiming useless negroes that denigrate bw for their blackness. it is better they be with anyone OTHER than a bw. i really hope you guys can figure out how to make it work better, because sane bw really don't need or want them back. they are a liability.

mmmmkay?

in reading i came across this gem of a post. thought i would post it here since quite a few bw want to be up in arms or hurt about who a ball chasing negro wants to date.

http://www.dateawhiteguy.blogspot.com/

be sure to check the comment section. great nuggets of truth and wisdom there by some very smart folks.

bm's version of "black love" has been happening for the longest. ball chasing negroes offend me less than those "race men" hypocrites. bm killed Malcolm X because he called them out on their hypocrisy. i love Malcolm X and wish there were more like him around today.

folks (namely bw) have just refused to call it what it is. i guess they were/are afraid of being labelled:

bitter
a lesbian
man-hater
race traitor
sell out
daddy issued
a nut
crazy
ugly
rejected
angry

and the list goes on. each day ladyboys come up with new ways to insult and silence bw that refuse to take their "place". i am more thankful than these words can convey that i.see.clearly. it is my right and responsibility to protect my best interests first and always.

folks on this thread have expressed concern that there is "recruiting" going on. yep. i don't deny for a moment that i am urging other bw to wake up and commit themselves to moving forward powerfully. the alternative is to go down with the ship. while quite a few bm try to pretend that all is well and your noticing the mess is because you need to "look in the mirror". it all cracks me up.

someone accused me of being Evia as well. i am not. see, many bw are snapping out of their coma and telling just plain truth about quite a few bm. i support her and her efforts. it is a compliment to be mistaken for her. she speaks with good old fashioned mother-wit and common sense.

Audre Lorde was onto something when she said:

"if i didn't define myself for myself, i would be crunched into other people's fantasies for me and eaten live."

blessings all,
-fp

Anonymous said...

Fp-""bm's version of "black love" has been happening for the longest. ball chasing negroes offend me less than those "race men" hypocrites. bm killed Malcolm X because he called them out on their hypocrisy. i love Malcolm X and wish there were more like him around today."

Your ignorant ass never ceases to amaze me. Fp, you were offended by negroes the day you realized no bm wanted your ugly ass.

And what would a bm the caliber of Malcolm X want with someone like you? Malcolm loved femininity, not a sick fat ugly angry masculine bw like you.

Face it. You can't get a man, nor have you ever had one. Otherwise, you wouldn't be wasting your life bashing bm on FN.

The ww was right about you cause there is nothing attractive about you. You are ugly through and through.

And you are wishing for men like Malcolm X to have in your miserable life? PAH LEEZE!

uptownsteve said...

I can't add anything to that.

ROTFLMBAO!!!

alicia banks said...

fp:

ditto

you make them yelp more loudly with each post

keep bruising said sexist dogs with your regal stones!!!

and
yes
ONLY bimbo hets fear being called lesbians/feminists etc

audre lorde said it best:

Today the red-herring of lesbian-baiting is being used in the Black community to obscure the true face of racism/sexism. Black women sharing close ties with each other, politically or emotionally, are not the enemies of Black men. Too frequently, however, some Black men attempt to rule by fear those Black women who are more ally than enemy. These tactics are expressed as threats of emotional rejection: "Their poetry wasn't too bad but I couldn't take all those lezzies." The Black man saying this is code-warning every Black woman present interested in a relationship with a man--and most Black women are--that (1) if she wishes to have her work considered by him she must eschew any other allegiance except to him and (2) any woman who wishes to retain his friendship and/or support had better not be "tainted" by woman-identified interests. . . .

All too often the message comes loud and clear to Black women from Black men: "I am the only prize worth having and there are not too many of me, and remember, I can always go elsewhere. So if you want me, you'd better stay in your place which is away from one another, or I will call you 'lesbian' and wipe you out." Black women are programmed to define ourselves within this male attention and to compete with each other for it rather than to recognize and move upon our common interests.

The tactic of encouraging horizontal hostility to becloud more pressing issues of oppression is by no means new, nor limited to relations between women. The same tactic is used to encourage separation between Black women and Black men. In discussions around the hiring and firing of Black faculty at universities, the charge is frequently heard that Black women are more easily hired than are Black men. For this reason, Black women's problems of promotion and tenure are not to be considered important since they are only "taking jobs away from Black men." Here again, energy is being wasted on fighting each other over the pitifully few crumbs allowed us rather than being used, in a joining of forces to fight for a more realistic ratio of Black faculty. The latter would be a vertical battle against racist policies of the academic structure itself, one which could result in real power and change. It is the structure at the top which desires changelessness and which profits from these apparently endless kitchen wars.

Lorde, Audre. "Scratching the Surface: Some Notes on Barriers to Woman and Loving." Sister Outsider: Essays and Speeches. Freedom, CA: Crossing Press, 1984. 45-52.

uptownsteve said...

"ONLY bimbo hets fear being called lesbians/feminists etc"

But they're the ones getting the men which really pisses you and fp off!

alicia banks said...

uts:

fyi

millions of women could not care less about any man...especially lesbians like me!!!

you are so juvenile and clueless
as you are blinded by your OWN raging sexism

you ARE exhibit A
but you are NOT "the prize"
____

pay attn!

once more
with feeling:


"All too often the message comes loud and clear to Black women from Black men: "I am the only prize worth having and there are not too many of me, and remember, I can always go elsewhere. So if you want me, you'd better stay in your place which is away from one another, or I will call you 'lesbian' and wipe you out." Black women are programmed to define ourselves within this male attention and to compete with each other for it rather than to recognize and move upon our common interests."

uptownsteve said...

"millions of women could not care less about any man...especially lesbians like me!!!"

Then why do you spend so much time bitching about bm?

Huh?????

You proto-femmes protest too much and are oh so phony.

You resent bm dating white women yet you want bw to date wm.

You claim that you are the desire of men of every race yet you complain that bm don't appreciate the pain and loneliness of single bw.

You complain that bm disrespect bw yet every other word you post about bm is filled with disdain and hate.

I told you before that I am not a homophobe.

Love whom you choose to love because life is too short.

However I also know that much of the lesbian ranks are filled with women who feel rejected by men.

I'm not sure how much real happiness you can draw for that.

alicia banks said...

uts:

again

you live is a sexist loony alternate universe

lesbians do not care about being rejected by men

and most hets could not care less about weak sorry sexist men like you who reject them either!!!

why are you so worried about lesbians????

alicia banks said...

uts:

did you just come out?
so you are with your wife because a man hurt YOU???

see how silly your "logic" is????

uptownsteve said...

Nah.

The laws of mathematics (most people by far are hetereosexual) and millions of years of procreation shows how silly YOUR question is.

alicia banks said...

uts:

your moronism is showing again...

you HETS breed us homos!!!

and

we gays breed just like you do!!!

duh!!!

33 % bi/gay
33% het
33% gay

get over your heterosexist fantasies!

alicia banks said...

uts:

ever seen a paternity show on tv?

or divorce ct?

THOSE are all hets who hate men

0 lesbians there!

wake up!

see more on women who hate men here:

http://aliciabanks.vox.com/library/post/fatal-transactions-on-cherica-adams-rae-caruth.html

alicia banks said...

uts:


while you are ranting

please FINALLY answer this!:

why is karinne s "just a whore" and kim k a "wife'????????????

to any man of any race??????

Anonymous said...

Fp, you are a hater of heterosexual black men and a lover of those who hate like you do.

uptownsteve said...

ab

For the record

I believe that both kk and ks are moneygrubbing skanks.

I believe you and fp are angry, manless and lesbian because you never recieved the attention from men you thought you deserved.

I believe that a woman's buttocks should never be referred to as her "ass", "booty" or "tail".

You should always refer to it as the "batty" like they do in Jamaica.

alicia banks said...

uts:


thanks!...i see

you are het because your man did not give you enough attn

check!

you are blinded by misogyny

and you would be an equally ignorant misogynist bastard in any culture...including jamaica!

http://aliciabanks.vox.com/library/post/homohatred-in-reggae-music-where-is-the-one-love.html

alicia banks said...

uts:

YOU LIE

you DID make a difference in kk v. ks

you did NOT wish reggie "good luck""

why???????????

alicia banks said...

uts:

i have an ideal family of educated beautiful black men
...i have a father and 2 bros
and 1 nephew

you have no idea how many real men i love

fyi

most women get way too much unwanted attn from most men
even lesbian me

and espcially those oversexed females on maury's paternity shows

you are really foolish!!!

Anonymous said...

AB, why the obsession with KK? Just because she is beautiful, sexy, loves bm is no reason to put her down. Your jealousy has you in its grip.

And I wish yu would stop bashing bm. Stop hating on bm and kk! she and Reggie are enjoying each other. What right do you haave to find fault with them?

Stop being a closed-minded prejudiced racist.

alicia banks said...

asson:

i am not a racist

i am a realist

euro ojs like you really think white whores like kk make great wives as you diss their black clones like ks

you lie!!!
http://aliciabanks.vox.com/library/post/black-love-gray-lies.html
shame!!!!!!!

alicia banks said...

hey assnon:

pay attn!

i find NO fault with reggie and kk or any other dregs in love

i find fault with euro black dogs like you who pretend that she is superior to ks ONLY because she is white!!!

uptownsteve said...

ab

You don't do yourself any favors sympathizing with a skank like Superhead.

Darius McCrary must have lost his mind.

She's done porno flicks and wrote a tell all book on all the celebrities she screwed and blew.

The only person here defending anybody is YOU.

alicia banks said...

uts:

giessed you missed kk's real life xxx sexcapade with ray j?

and kk's doorknob tour of MOST ybm ion hillywood???

again you prove my point further

you are STILL excusing kk as you diss ks exclusively

shame!!!!!

you are also late

ks has much more than one book

but she does have less books that kk has bm tricks in cali

fix that

does kk read???

alicia banks said...

uts:

you are also a dirty lying bastard

i am not defending ks as a whore

i am defending ks as the SOLE target of bm whores who love and marry white whores like you/rb et al!

alicia banks said...

uts:

you do not win debates by changing the topic or lying about the tipic when you get your ass kicked

fyi

YOU have still not wished reggie luck as you did darius!!!!

and

why has rb not "lost his mind" too???????

again you prove my pt!

euro bm like you coddle and covet white whores like kk exclusively and repulsively and you get worse with each post!!!!

Anonymous said...

AB "i find fault with euro black dogs like you who pretend that she is superior to ks ONLY because she is white!!!"

Well, kk is sexier and prettier. Sorry, but it has nothing to do with her color, you jealous racist pig.

i had a wet dream about kk, not ks. kk is leagues above ks. You have such low self-worth. Beautiful sexy KK frightens you, doesn't she? Reggie is enjoying his life with her. She is one sexy irresistable woman.

I bet you are praying there are not many like her in America, otherwise you will have go hide.

ks is not match for KK, accept the truth.

alicia banks said...

assnon:

thank you for being exhibit ABC...with your loving ode to a wf skank like kk

keep it up oj!!!

Anonymous said...

AB "keep it up oj!!!"

What's with the oj stuff? You jealous of him too?

Anonymous said...

I bet AB's lover is White! That would explain her obsession with kk.

alicia banks said...

assnon:

only scum like you covet oj and kk

and each post gets MORE euro and MORE lame!

alicia banks said...

assnon:

unlike you, i adore bfs exclusively

my queen is an african goddess just like me!

i prefer clones just like you do you euro dreg!

Anonymous said...

AB "and each post gets MORE euro and MORE lame!"

No, it's just that your distorted frightened euro-mind sees 'euro' everywhere...even in your sleep.

But it's not reality.

You need help and i will be glad to assist in getting you back to mental health. Because you are my sistah, I will give you free therapy. No need to thank me, consider it my generous contribution to the 'cause'.

I am sure there are some on FN blog who would appreciate it too.

alicia banks said...

assnon:

did you really just post an ode to that public bm sperm bank kk and then call me euro and crazy????

that is classic dual irony!

doing wf skanks must cause dementia as you are clearly fatally infected!!!

Anonymous said...

"ks is not match for KK, accept the truth."

I guess that means your mother is leagues below and isn't as pretty as KK either. Accept the truth.

Anonymous said...

Anon8:33p "I guess that means your mother is leagues below and isn't as pretty as KK either. Accept the truth."

Like AB, I see you have a hard on for KK too. That means you wouldn't know the truth if it bit you. People like you and AB can't handle the truth.

@ AB stop calling ww skanks, you racist rotweiler looking pig.

And show some respect to POI, you dog.

focusedpurpose said...

AB, you crack me up. you must laugh hysterically as you whack these denial-heads daily with the truth.

please notice that i am a lesbian yet still angry that i can't have a bm. wtheck?! pure comedy. wouldn't i want a woman if i were a lesbian? lol! is there supposed to be a shortage of women, too?!

AB, i have noticed as well that rather than getting themselves in a place where they can compete with other men, quite a few bm want to compete with bw. rather than encouraging each other to raise their standards for themselves and reach for more, they would rather have bw reach down and for less. but there is something wrong with ME if i say something about the dysfunction? okey doke.

Anon 2:50 AM-

LOL! it is official...you behave like a dysfunctional female. in fact, your inappropriate, hysterical, emotional outbursts are embaressing to witness. may i suggest that you embrace emotional discipline and maturity?

your reading comprehension is off as well. i wish there were more Malcolm X's among us. i am not looking for a date. lol! really, how hard is this for you anon? i am about to throw you in the exercise-in-futility pile with your little friend and just stop engaging you. males that want to argue and bicker with women are rather offputting to me. if i had the patience for that misbehavior, i would deal with females that behave that way first. for further clarification, if you choose you may check out:

http://focusedpurpose.blogspot.com/2008/02/malcolmyou-are-sorely-missed.html

note the date oh hysterical, emotionally undisciplined one.

contrary to the fantasy that runs in that vacuous head of yours, ladyboy anon, having a bm is NOT a hard feat. the fact that you and others like you pretend that it is cracks me up.

high standards will cause quite a few bm to eliminate themselves from consideration. refusing to marry down and put up with the nonsense quite a few bm bring, well, hopefully you can find a clue soon. i personally think you are playing the nutrole. ya'll know sisters are not having it, THAT'S why ya'll keep trying to convince us marrying down is cool/in for bw.

the stereotypes you attached to me are laughable. i don't struggle with my weight, loneliness or any of the default stereotypes ladyboys like to hurl at bw to make themselves feel better about their weak completely dominated state. if you set aside your petty little insults and factually/honestly REFUTE anything i have said, you might feel better about yourself. the truth, is making you lose your cool. get it together. pray for discipline. GET an understanding. no one can give it to you. seriously. messy hysterical males is NOT a good look.

additionally, may i suggest that you consume less media? watch fewer movies with bm dressed up like women, depicting bw all as man-less fat women and bm as effeminate ladyboys? you might feel better about yourself.

hope that helps.

-fp

Anonymous said...

Fp "please notice that i am a lesbian yet still angry that i can't have a bm. wtheck?! pure comedy. wouldn't i want a woman if i were a lesbian? lol! is there supposed to be a shortage of women, too?!"

LOL..You are a black lesbian, and you have the nerve to put down bm? GET REAL! Hell, even the white gay/lesbian community don't want you- let alone the black community. No wonder you are trying to start your own weirdo-hating bf cult community!

I hope you are successful. Maybe it will relieve some of that misery you are carrying inside yourself.

BTW, if you want a private place to start your colony may I suggest JIM JONES old property? It is still available...without the kool-aide, of course. You'll have to furnish that yourself.

Blessings to All,

uptownsteve said...

Anon

FP is a lesbian because no man will have her.

The only thing she can get is another ugly angry female.

Anonymous said...

uts-"FP is a lesbian because no man will have her."

That explains why she attacks and bashes bm. My fiance can't believe someone like her exists.

Have you noticed Fp tries to define how a bm man is supposed to behave and feel? according to her self-centered needs, of course.

She is a classic case of 'ignorance' thinking it is 'knowledge'.

focusedpurpose said...

LOL! NOW i am done. THAT is all you got?

this is like fist fighting with an infant.

i leave you continue to embaress your mother, her sister(s)s, and mother that obviously raised you by themselves. lol!

Godspeed,
-fp

uptownsteve said...

fp

Who raised YOU?

There obviously wasn't any men involved.

Anonymous said...

Fp “i leave you continue to embaress your mother, her sister(s)s, and mother that obviously raised you by themselves. lol!”

You really should get another line, cause you are a bore with that same old tired ass thinking.

Anyway, I earn well into six digits each year, and I am happily married. So my mother AND father did a fabulous job in raising me. Btw, they are very proud of me and would tell you so.

Did you know your mother or father? Your supposition about my mother and how she raised me WITHOUT a father, indicates that you never knew your parents. Or if you did, you lived in an unhappy home.

But your comment proved the point I made in a previous comment:

'you are a little girl looking for her daddy.'

It’s too late, Fp. So you can’t blame all bm for the shortcomings of your absent father and mother.

I suspect that you don’t know who your parents were/are, and therefore it is beyond your life experience to know what healthy parenting and healthy people are like. You can only 'guess'.

I am very sorry for the hard life you have lived because it has left you half-human. I feel for you, I really do... However, it is NOT the fault of bm.

I hope someday you will find peace and happiness. I will pray for you.

Anonymous said...

Thank you, Anon.

Anonymous said...

anon8:27, "But your comment proved the point I made in a previous comment:

'you are a little girl looking for her daddy.'

It’s too late, Fp. So you can’t blame all bm for the shortcomings of your absent father and mother."

Co-sign 100%.

Anonymous said...

Anon3:21p, "BTW, if you want a private place to start your colony may I suggest JIM JONES old property? It is still available...without the kool-aide, of course. You'll have to furnish that yourself."

ROFLMAO!

La♥audiobooks said...

"Anyway, I earn well into six digits each year,"

LOL.

The average black male making well into six figures and above don't usually internalize these type discussions, nor behave so defensively. Not to mention they don't have the time to bicker with women all day on a blog.

Well for some men, they can be all they can be, on the internet.

Anonymous said...

La Audiobooks, "Well for some men, they can be all they can be, on the internet."

Ah, the "lonely one" speaks.

focusedpurpose said...

La-

LOL! seriously.

you know lady boy anon, i owe you an apology.

see, i should not assume that you were raised by all women. you could very well be a catty, bitchy male because you choose to be or that could very well be a family trait for your menfolk. a generational curse if you will. please pardon my assumption.

according to you and your little friend's logic then you must be a fat, lonely, unable to get a man, bw. lol!

based on that same logic, i must be a bw that was assaulted/accosted/murdered if i noted that bw are not having a hard time finding a bm. we are in fact living in a time when we have to delicately say no thank you so as to avoid being the victims of violence and abuse. (there are lot of ladyboys out there! refer back to prior definition if you forgot what i mean when i say it.)

here is a clue for you and your kind. i noted that bm on this thread allowed disrespect of bw without making a peep. (the bw that talk about their daddies were suddenly mute as well. this is why i call them out without apology when they start THAT madness.) things have not changed. when you were little folks talked about your mother as an ultimate sign of disrespect. the same is true today. bw are the mothers of the black nation. quite a few bm are too foolish to realize this. so let me make it about bm. maybe then you folks can get it. bm will be respected when they finally get this message:

"since the 1930s, Elijah Muhammad told BM the following:

"Until we learn to love and protect our woman, we will never be a fit and recognized people on the earth. The white people here among you will never recognize you until you protect your woman.

The brown man will never recognize you until you protect your woman. The yellow man will never recognize you until you protect your woman. The white man will never recognize you until you protect your woman.

You and I may go to Harvard, we may go to York of England, or go to Al Azhar in Cairo and get degrees from all of these great seats of learning. But we will never be recognized until we recognize our women." Elijah Muhammad, "Message to the Blackman," pgs. 58-59."

thanks Khadija! over here doing my part to de-program any bw that is following the convo and can hear. lol! with focused purpose and humor.

ok, now for real, i am done toying with you little folks. i will come back another time to get a good laugh at the defensive, emotional, illogical meltdown that will ensue. the benefit of emotional discipline is that YOU would be in control of yourself. get some for your own sakes. right now, i can get you to act a catty fool with very little effort. lol!

toodles.

-fp

Anonymous said...

dear Fp, from your ranting comment it sure sounds like you are the one who is having a melt down. LOL. You sound like you were flooded with emotions because parts of your comments just doesn't make sense and rest is outrageous. LOL

You continue to prove my point in previous posts:

"you are a little girl looking for her daddy." LOL

Btw, this 'ladyboy' takes good care of his 'lady'...I love her; she lives well; is protected, respected, and appreciated. Elijah Muhammed would be proud. lol

Of course, you live in a different world. No? Hang in there.

Anonymous said...

Amen brother Anon.

Preach it!

Anonymous said...

"I love her; she lives well; is protected, respected, and appreciated."

Sounds like a white girl. Not fooling anyone.

uptownsteve said...

La@I

"The average black male making well into six figures and above don't usually internalize these type discussions, nor behave so defensively. Not to mention they don't have the time to bicker with women all day on a blog."

And what does that say about you extremely successful, happy and content proto-femmes who spend day after day whining about how terrible men are and how lonely and betrayed black women are?????

Your hypocrisy is absolutely jaw-dropping!!!!

uptownsteve said...

fp

"AB, i have noticed as well that rather than getting themselves in a place where they can compete with other men, quite a few bm want to compete with bw. rather than encouraging each other to raise their standards for themselves and reach for more, they would rather have bw reach down and for less. but there is something wrong with ME if i say something about the dysfunction?"

Ain't dis a trip?

Fp you really don't get it, do you?

The black men you are arguing with here are all successful husbands who achieved fulfilling relationships with black women.

Other sistas here like granny and angie have positive relationships with black men.

It's you ab and La@inc who are angry and deprived but you expect people to listen your advice?

ROTFLMBAO!!!!!!!!!!!

alicia banks said...

fp:

i am certain you noted that everything assnon and uts posted herein is rooted in sexism and eurocentrism:

"no man wants you...no white gays want you" etc

shame that these 2 pathetic sorry bm fools disgrace all bros who do not worship white whores like kk/hate all women who look like them and their mamas

they are completely erased by the fact that any afrocentric lesbian/het woman who is in love with a real bm or afro lesbian clone NULLIFIES their very limited and worthless existences!!!...

ie
same for their fellow moronic gaybashers:

Murderous gaybashers exist and are religiously sanctioned in every human race. Yet, I remain convinced that racism and sexism combine to create a uniquely hot hatred of homosexuals within most black gaybashers globally. I have penned many columns, hosted countless talk radio shows, and engaged in heated debates with diverse friends on the subject of black gaybashers for decades. I have elaborated ad infinitum about precisely how racism and sexism combine and degenerate too many black men who regard themselves exclusively as life support systems for penises, and too many black women who regard themselves exclusively as concubines/breeders for these aforementioned black macho men.

This toxic combination of psychoses fashions turbo gaybashers in blackface, who passionately regard homosexuals as literal nullifiers of their very existences. Their twisted insecurities are expressed as fatal gaybashing/self-defense mechanisms in the paranoid and insane wars that their hatred fuels against sexual truths in general and homosexual persons in particular. Combine those toxins with the additional madness created by the oceans of blood awash upon the hands of droves of black pastors, who continue to preach lies about God and the bible to their mindless and robotic flocks. These evil and bigoted pseudo-christians truly regard gaybashing and murdering homosexuals as divine acts!!!

To this toxic mix, blend in the arrogant ignorance of uneducated masses that know and desire to know absolutely nothing about the universal scientific nature of homosexuality in literally every living species. All of these ancient ingredients mesh into a perfect and pervasive recipe for social poison that festers deep within the core of global black cultures and ferments into a potent emotional and psychic venom that the diaspora of African gaybashers spew like legions of deadly cobras.

http://aliciabanks.vox.com/library/post/a-eulogy-for-sakia-gunn---an-eternal-sista-warrior.html

Anonymous said...

AB, where have you have been hiding? Have you been away checking out Jim Jones property with Fp? Now don't get sassy, you might get slayed all over FN blog by a host of bm, and then slayed again on your own blog by bw and bm together.

Anonymous said...

ab "i am certain you noted that everything assnon and uts posted herein is rooted in sexism and eurocentrism:"

Not true. Once again, you are deluded.

@AB "shame that these 2 pathetic sorry bm fools disgrace all bros who do not worship white whores like kk/hate all women who look like them and their mamas"

Wow. Your statement is both 'sexist' and 'racist'. I thought you believed in equality and fairness. Guess not. You are a racist just like that one lesbian posseee you run with. Does your wife know that you are screwing around?

Btw, Reggie plans to propose to KK if the Saints win. Oh No! another one bites the dust.

uptownsteve said...

ab

"shame that these 2 pathetic sorry bm fools disgrace all bros who do not worship white whores like kk/hate all women who look like them and their mamas."


anon

"Not true. Once again, you are deluded."

Amen.

It's amazing to me how they project.

It's ab and fp who are putting down bm and claiming that we have to elevate ourselves to be worthy of them.....lol!

Yet WE have loving relationships with sistas and they're the ones yapping about reggie and kk!!!!

If they are so happy in their gayness what the f are they worried about who reggie bush bones?

You think I spend one second worrying about Whoopi Goldberg, Iman, Alek Wek, Halle Berry and their white boys?

This is total silliness.

GO SAINTS!

La♥audiobooks said...

"And what does that say about you extremely successful, happy and content proto-femmes who spend day after day whining about how terrible men are and how lonely and betrayed black women are????"

Steve, when will some of you black males ever learn to behave like "men" if you keep holding yourselves to the same functional and emotional standards of women folk? LOL. This is another one of your pathological downfalls as competing "men" in this global society etc etc and etc.

As FP and AB identified above, no wonder you will always feel suppressed and frustrated by the racist system and the "white man" who refuses to acknowledge his privileges. Some of you black males can't even acknowledge your own sexism and oppression towards black females internally. It amuses me when you bark all day at CF, half the time he's telling the truth. I sense you only jab at him because he doesn't just single out black females in his rants. We wouldn't hear a peep from you then.

Steve barfs: "GO SAINTS!"

I hope so too. It seems, this is one of the only ways many of you could ever dream of making six plus digits the legal way.

Go ahead now, call me ugly, bitter, fat and manless to make it all go away. LOL.


FP, I'm still tickled how the "I have a good father and uncle" crew hasn't shown up as yet to bring in that "balance" they talked about. SMH.

focusedpurpose said...

ladies (AB, La, UTS, and sassy anon)

i have enjoyed a good laugh and now i give up on this thread.

my purpose has been fulfilled. the rest is just the rest. lol!

AB, yes i noted all of your observations. i also noted when i sent the drivel message back to sender, that it "made no sense". lol! as such, i will leave it alone. i am officially bored. this does not even represent creative stupidity on the ladyboys' part. yawn.

La, you crack me up sis. i caution you to not expend too much energy, aside from comic relief; coward fools rarely recognize themselves as such.

blessings all,
focusedpurpose

Anonymous said...

LOL. Fp, are you still barking and roaming around like some lost hyena? You need to get a life, girl.

Oh… I forgot-'Bashing bm' IS your life. LOL

Anonymous said...

Lawdy Lawdy, they keep on comin trying to defeat the great Jack Johnson. LOL.

@LI/LaAudiobooks, “FP, I'm still tickled how the "I have a good father and uncle" crew hasn't shown up as yet to bring in that "balance" they talked about. SMH.”

LI/La, because I know you want to become “happy, joyous and free”, I have developed a simple three point program to help you accomplish your goal:

1. Start associating with some REAL people (Note: That means you will have to stop associating with Fp...LOL).

2. Join Overeaters Anonymous to break your midnight food addictions. (Now don’t get mad, you know it’s true.)

3. Leave that tiny ass island you are on, and start a new life in the states, where the action is. (I suggest you do not move to Fp’s state where the people have elected the 'Terminator' to run their state.) lol

If you follow my simple program, you will increase your chances of finding a rich fulfilling life with a successful bm. LI/La Audioboomboom, I know you can do it. May I call you ‘boomboom’?

Tooda-loo.

alicia banks said...

hey uts & assnon:

here is a video of one of reggie's OTHER WHORES in his home snug and happy while he was at the superbowl with his BOTTOM bitch/top skank kk

fyi

enjoy

http://sandrarose.com/2010/02/07/does-kim-kardashian-know-about-this-bish/


http://sandrarose.com/2010/02/08/celebs-out-about-reggie-bush-kim-kardashian/

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congrats to nola!!!!
who dat did dat!!!

manning
we still love you!

alicia banks said...

uts and assnon = 2 remedial euro fools

pay attn bois:

WE DO NOT GIVE A DAMN ABOUT REGGIE AND HIS STABLE OF WHORES/KK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

THEY DO NOT BELONG ON THE COVER OF ESSENCE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

THE COVER IS THE ISSUE...
NOT THE PIMP JOCK AND HIS JUMPOFFS!!!!!

PERIOD!!!!!

Anonymous said...

@Anon 11:03,

You worked all night on that one I bet. lol

Anonymous said...

AB, where have you been? I have missed you.

did you have to take a hiatus to get over the last smack down I gave you?

I guess I'll have to go a little easier on you. sometimes I don't realize how scary it must be for you when I am slaying you. I am sorry....Will you forgive me?

What's up with that tacky ass video by some carmen ortego? She is fat and can't hold a candle to KK.

she is definitely an opportunist and desperately trying to destroy a beautiful relationship between Reggie and Kim.

AB, you ought to be ashamed of yourself for promoting some bullshit like this...

SHAME ON YOU!!! You have no morals.

Anonymous said...

AB, "THEY DO NOT BELONG ON THE COVER OF ESSENCE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

They DO BELONG on the cover of Essence or they wouldn't be on the magazine's cover...DON'T YOU GET IT?

You need a brain transplant, girl. Because your thinking is waaaay off. I remember you once claimed to have a high IQ of 250. I am beginning to think that you got those numbers in reverse...025.

Not only do Reggie and Kim belong on the cover Essence, they belong on every black magazine, every white magazine, and every other magazine in America because
they are the perfect 'dream couple' in America.

Did you read that Reggie promised to propose to KK if the SAINTS won?

I know you are so-o-o-o-o-o jealous and upset about KK that your doctor has you on heavy doses of prozac and valium.

With much love as always,
your life coach

PS. I won't smack you down anymore IF you will stop calling little innocent KK nasty names and stop talking about her good hearted mother. Now go take your medicine.

uptownsteve said...

La*audio

"Steve, when will some of you black males ever learn to behave like "men" if you keep holding yourselves to the same functional and emotional standards of women folk? LOL. This is another one of your pathological downfalls as competing "men" in this global society etc etc and etc."

Damn, now I have to explain to YOU that men and women are EQUALS???

For all your chestbeating and "I AM WOMAN HEAR ME ROAR" yelping, you're still emotionally stunted little girls longing to be pampered and spoiled by daddy!!!!


"As FP and AB identified above, no wonder you will always feel suppressed and frustrated by the racist system and the "white man" who refuses to acknowledge his privileges."

You never heard any "oppression" talk from me.

I've competed head to head with white men all my life and have more than held my own.


"Some of you black males can't even acknowledge your own sexism and oppression towards black females internally."

Oh okay.

"Oppression" talk is still another privilege of womanhood according to you.

Along with ripping men to shreds whenever it soothes your bruised psyches while expecting no challenge or response.

puh-leeze.

"It amuses me when you bark all day at CF, half the time he's telling the truth. I sense you only jab at him because he doesn't just single out black females in his rants. We wouldn't hear a peep from you then."

Oh I understand now.

You ladies just hate being black and the fact that you're black WOMEN makes you the ultimate victim.

Excuse me while I revisit my dinner.

Anonymous said...

I'm glad the African spoke. Now he can understand why Black Americans don't give two shyts about their plights. Countries around the world are expelling them and drag them kicking and screaming onto homeward bound planes. Look what they've turned their women into all over Europe and Italy in particular. If Africans are so industrious why can't they think their way out of a paper bag and do something for that wretched continent which serves as a beacon of shame for us ALL. Wouldn't want to be 'em!

Anonymous said...

focusedpurpose...thanks for quoting Abbey Lincoln. We know what she said is true. Maria is definitely a wolf in sheep's clothing as someone else has mentioned. Many white women with Black men enjoy unbridled hatred of Black women with full blessing from their men. I never share anything with these women because they lie and will use anything to exacerbate tensions knowing how much Black men believe in this "fantasy" of them being angels. Look what the lottery winner in Florida got for buying into such a gross fantasy.

La♥audiobooks said...

'You ladies just hate being black"

LOL. Where did that come from? Oh.. ok Steve, you win buddy. Was that a diarrhetic slip of inner-projection perhaps?

I think I'll take FP's advice and save my energy for myself and those who can at least throw some requite in the universe. You and the ladyboys are becoming more publicly epicene and emotionally unstable. I'm glad I'm sitting behind a computer, you know how angry and violent they say some of you tend to get when this happens.

Shoot, I think you folks know I would never expend my time and energy marching in those ungrateful black t-shirts, so now you're trying to suck the energy out of me one way or another. LOL. Typical.

FP, I too enjoyed the comic relief, until next time - take care. LOL.

uptownsteve said...

La@audio

"LOL. Where did that come from?"

When you said that we're picking on CF and all he's doing is telling the truth.

He's a self-hating Tom and if you cosign with his nonsense I really have to question your pride and love of black people.

"I'm glad I'm sitting behind a computer, you know how angry and violent they say some of you tend to get when this happens."

Wow, I guess this statement removes all doubt, doesn't it?

You know La@audio I really don't like the fact that our exchanges have turned hostile.

I've always respected you and enjoyed your comments until this "bm vs bw" war started with the appearance of FP.

I love black women and nothing that I've said would indicate otherwise.

I do have a major problem with gratuitous black male bashing and stereotyping.

My wife would really be surprised that I'm considered by some here to be anti black women.

Check my profile and you'll see our portait taken from the revisiting our wedding vows on our 20th anniversary.

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